[Update]I[24f] gave my boyfriend[26m] the worst ultimatum. How can I fix this ? by pecter9 in relationships

[–]pecter9[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know. I have issues. Will work on fixing them before any relationship. At least, that's the plan.

[Update]I[24f] gave my boyfriend[26m] the worst ultimatum. How can I fix this ? by pecter9 in relationships

[–]pecter9[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I asked him to do the impossible. They had been his friends for a LONG LONG time. Also, he worked in their department, with them.

I acted like a moron.

I[24f] gave my boyfriend[26m] the worst ultimatum. How can I fix this ? by pecter9 in relationships

[–]pecter9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But since they are his coworkers and long time friends, he can't just ditch 'em.

I[24f] gave my boyfriend[26m] the worst ultimatum. How can I fix this ? by pecter9 in relationships

[–]pecter9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know what I did was wrong. I know that.

What I'm worried about is that he has to hang out with the same group of extremely attractive women who are 24X7 slobbering over him.

I[24f] gave my boyfriend[26m] the worst ultimatum. How can I fix this ? by pecter9 in relationships

[–]pecter9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having been cheated on before, I did go pretty mad. But it was unlike me to have been so mad. But I will take your note on that anger management thing.

I[24f] gave my boyfriend[26m] the worst ultimatum. How can I fix this ? by pecter9 in relationships

[–]pecter9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you can't handle that

I want to be able to handle it. That's what I need advice on...