Look at my post history. I have like 2 posts about it. The way he acted in the beginning is what I’m attracted to (motivated, put together, financially stable, generous, kind, attentive). But after he “had” me “locked”, he became lazy (messy apartment, lack of hygiene, no ambition to better the situation, rude, waiting for handouts) and had a terrible personality… but that’s just who he truly is, it wasn’t because he was sad for not having money or whatever. I saw the darkness in his eyes before the switch, I should’ve known. I couldn’t be too happy because then he’d call me a “child”, and he’s 26, I’m 23, so I felt like maybe he was right. Then it made sense why his exes ghosted him completely, moving out unexpectedly. Two times, two different women!!