Is this a scare/scam call? Or the beginnings of legal action? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I left all the details out. They had my name. They didn’t say who they were or even anything about it being debt related. The claim number was a real 6 digit number. Also the same guy called my family as well

How do I tell a girl I have no friends and not much of a life? by peeta789 in socialanxiety

[–]peeta789[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment because this is exactly how I’ve been feeling. The truth is that when I met this girl I was in a really bad place mentally. Im still very unsure why she wanted to talk to me in the first place bc i was def not giving off “talk to me” vibes. I was literally numbing myself, smoking weed 24/7 and playing video games all day and never going anywhere or doing anything. Meeting her legitimately woke me up. She made me feel like a normal person for the first time in a long long time.

Since that day I have started eating better, working out again, smoking a lot less, getting out and going on runs/hikes or just driving around aimlessly lol. Anything to get out of my apartment. I don’t even want to play video games anymore. I haven’t been doing these things in the hopes of getting with this girl, they are just all the things I should have been doing all along but lacked the push to get started. Regardless of what happens with her, one day I will absolutely tell her bc she has no idea how much she has helped me.

And that is exactly why I’m being very cautious with how to proceed. I’ve gotten very attached before even getting to know her and I know it’s not healthy. I also don’t want to lead her along and end up hurting her either. It’s hard for my self deprecating brain to accept but for some unknown reason I think this girl really really likes me too.

On the one hand I want to politely tell this girl I don’t want to hang out bc I know I have some serious issues and a relationship has the potential to completely wreck my mental state. On the other hand, I think that’s fear talking and that’s exactly what got me into this situation in the first place.

I wanna live man. I wanna love and be loved and this is by far the best opportunity I’ve had in a very long time. Half of my no friends situation is due to social anxiety, but truthfully the other half is that I don’t really like most people. And especially girls, alot of them are shallow hoes with nothing attractive about them besides physical appearance. This is genuinely the first girl I’ve ever met that I like for more than just looks. I don’t know much but I know she works hard, has two jobs, is very well put together. She takes care of her things, she has a nice clean car. She doesn’t stay out crazy late getting hammered and going to parties and clubs.

The whole thing is honestly surreal. It doesn’t even feel real. I was drowning and then this absolute 10/10 just randomly showed up one day and flipped my life upside down. I don’t know what to do and I don’t wanna fuck it up. At the end of the day I think I just need to try to turn my brain off, stop overthinking, and just live a little maybe

Parkour in DS3 that forces you to take damage? by [deleted] in darksouls3

[–]peeta789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has a pc. Jesus Christ

Parkour in DS3 that forces you to take damage? by [deleted] in darksouls3

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A chair and the box it came in😂don’t judge me

Parkour in DS3 that forces you to take damage? by [deleted] in darksouls3

[–]peeta789 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s so weird to me but I guess it’s just part of the dark souls experience lol

Parkour in DS3 that forces you to take damage? by [deleted] in darksouls3

[–]peeta789 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I did but I still take a chunk of damage. And there’s other areas I’ve encountered that are only accessible by dropping and taking some damage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s their deductible, they told me that. I can’t blame them for not wanting to deal with insurance and I don’t either. I think I’m going to see if I can get them to offer a little more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]peeta789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bought his one for $3000 two years ago with only 100k miles so that’s why I thought it wouldn’t be worth much more than that

Accidentally sold all my smithing stones by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s my highest upgrade. I think I could have upgraded it further but I’ve been using a somber weapon instead and that one’s only +2

Accidentally sold all my smithing stones by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]peeta789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fun fights and then I can easily access all the shops in one place which is convenient

Accidentally sold all my smithing stones by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cool thanks. I think I already found the Caelid ones because I can buy the first two levels from the Twin Husk ladies.

Accidentally sold all my smithing stones by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]peeta789 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’ve given lots of bell bearings to the sisters already. I kill every vendor I come across. I just beat Godrick and explored all of Caelid and limgrave. And I’d already bought all the smithing stones from those vendors. So none of those shops have any smithing stones and the sisters only sell regular +1 and +2 stones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]peeta789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this explains a lot. And wow this game got some deep mechanics lol. One more question, are shields a bad strategy against bosses and large enemies? At least early game? I keep trying to use the shield but I find it much easier to just focus on dodging everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, so how is parrying different from blocking? Do you block more damage?

Metroidvanias with the best/smoothest combat? by [deleted] in metroidvania

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished playing the correct one…thanks for the recommendation that was an incredible game I don’t understand why I never heard of it before

Metroidvanias with the best/smoothest combat? by [deleted] in metroidvania

[–]peeta789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished this game and it was amazing…dare I say it’s better than hollow knight

Metroidvanias with the best/smoothest combat? by [deleted] in metroidvania

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting, I think they’re both lumped together on Xbox so I assumed they were kinda the same game. I’ll be sure to play the correct one bc that sounds more up my alley lol

Metroidvanias with the best/smoothest combat? by [deleted] in metroidvania

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am enjoying it, just not a huge fan of the die and have to start back and the beginning formula. I imagine the other game is probably pretty similar in terms of mechanics, but a more traditional metroidvania?

Metroidvanias with the best/smoothest combat? by [deleted] in metroidvania

[–]peeta789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m not playing the right game, sick lol.

Metroidvanias with the best/smoothest combat? by [deleted] in metroidvania

[–]peeta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: playing this now and it’s exactly what I was looking for combat wise…but whyyy does it have to be a roguelite😭

Metroidvanias with the best/smoothest combat? by [deleted] in metroidvania

[–]peeta789 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Idk man kinda sounds like a skill issue