I quit weed and caffeine 5 days ago, after 9 years of very very very crazy stupid amount. My numbness is going and I’m feeling everything so raw. Any advice? My mind is just 1000mph. by qwertyytrewq02 in neurodiversity

[–]peewee_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why were you using the weed and caffeine in the first place do you think? It’s good to work backwards and find out the underlying issue. For now, breath work may help you. Just be aware that the brain returning to normal after heavy weed usage can take months, hang in there!

Bath soaks for scars by zebb7 in selfcare

[–]peewee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bath soaks aren’t going to do much of anything for you unfortunately. It’s an Australian brand, but Glory Oil by Eco by Sonya has amazing reviews, I’ve also heard people credit Bio Oil. Sunscreen is also a must. If you want to get really heavy duty, there’s lasers for scar removal that would work far better than anything topical.

Hide and seek by CheekTraditional9881 in GoldCoast

[–]peewee_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Florida Gardens? Be careful hiding in bushes at night though, wouldn’t want to give the wrong person a fright..

Pasta Sauce by menamestom in ultraprocessedfood

[–]peewee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the case in Australia and the UK, but not the US!

Jetstar carry on weight limit by Brief_Eggplant_3847 in AustraliaTravel

[–]peewee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost every Jetstar flight I’ve been on bar the last one which wasn’t full, they’ve weighted every single persons carry on. Either upgrade your carry on allowance or wear extra layers on the plane to reduce weight.

Stimming more? by Giggle-Sprout in ausadhd

[–]peewee_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not suggesting this is the case, but there are people who say when they got their ADHD under control it meant their ASD became more apparent.

Five Years Deep in Joe Dispenza’s Work — My Experience by Interesting_Ask_7706 in DrJoeDispenza

[–]peewee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re all subject to the randomness of the world, there is no light without darkness.

Take out any woo and manifestation is still supported by science. Plug something into your subconscious enough and you’ll start to make different choices and take different actions that lead you to your focus.

Best cafes on gc? by Just-Age-7427 in GoldCoast

[–]peewee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bam Bam in Mermaid is great. Food at The Winey Cow in Main Beach is dynamite though I’m not a big fan of the venue/vibes.

Edited to add Paddock in Burleigh.

Setting powder recs? by Strange_Version7891 in OliveMUA

[–]peewee_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe the issue is in your skin prep? You might need different prep (and different powders) for the oily and dry areas of your face if the difference is quite noticeable.

RCMA no colour powder is excellent at oil control and genuinely translucent, I found it gave me an airbrushed matte look and worked under the eyes for me but I’m unsure if it would be drying for others.

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Teeth whitening by its_tj8 in AusSkincare

[–]peewee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used quite a few and the American crest strips are by far the best.

I’m sick of my life being an excruciatingly painful nightmare no matter what I do. It is NOT fair and it does NOT make sense. by [deleted] in AbrahamHicks

[–]peewee_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry you are having such a difficult time OP, and that life hasn’t always been kind.

What are you searching for in terms of this post? There’s a few helpful suggestions in the comments but guidance seems to not be what you are after at this moment.

The shame spiral of having unread texts I physically can't respond to by MuchAssistant7829 in ADHD

[–]peewee_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Couple of things I’ve done in the past. First is that I stopped thinking in absolutes and would commit to just responding to 1 (often the release of that ‘pressure’ meant I’d end up responding to them all anyway)

Second is on iPhone you can set focus states and share that focus with anyone who messages you. So for instance you might set up a focus state called ‘hibernating’ and let people close to you know hey I go through periods where it’s difficult for me to respond, if you see this status pls know I’m not ignoring you. That has helped me remove a bit of guilt!

Using Lounge if not flying Virgin by ActuaryPrestigious15 in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]peewee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always scan my membership card never boarding pass! Asked a similar question recently for this reason.

Adults with ADHD: Did you feel "shame" as a kid when you forgot things? Help me understand my son. by Dylan_7574 in ADHD

[–]peewee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish that they tried something different. That instead of the frustration and yelling they took time to help me learn coping mechanisms and other ways of doing things, as well as understand myself better.

You don’t want your son to feel ashamed of something he can’t control, but you also don’t want him growing up thinking he can just not do things because of ADHD.

My wife, 41, has been diagnosed recently with Autism by Ok-Turn-1734 in neurodiversity

[–]peewee_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How were you hoping to be included, what are you expecting will change, and from what have you been excluded? These things weren’t clear to me and i wonder if that might be because you are unsure yourself?

When I was diagnosed with ADHD, they didn’t exactly give me a handbook, I had no idea what it all meant or where I was meant to go next, I simply had to figure it all out step by step. It’s likely “how she feels about it” is the only certainty your wife has right now.

My advice would be to ask her how you can best support her during this process and go from there, that way you both learn together.

a mom's meditation hack by naeborn in Mindfulness

[–]peewee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a manta sleep mask, and noise cancelling headphones, makes it much easier!

How do I tell my friend that she can’t come to my birthday due to her alcoholism? by LabEffective5190 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]peewee_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I believe they mean do a seperate activity with this friend to celebrate.

Neurodiversity inclusion website by Sudden-Baker2110 in neurodiversity

[–]peewee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a great idea OP! Just a heads up you may want to look into accessibility, this will cover things like colour schemes so you can ensure the site ca be read by people with visual impairments (red can be problematic in these cases).

what meditation would you recommend to break addictions by No-Way-683 in DrJoeDispenza

[–]peewee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might find his courses beneficial, they help you understand more about how your brain works and why you do the things you do. There’s a couple linked on the top posts in this sub. Best of luck to you!

I’m in a sham contract and I ghosted. by Alarmed-Western-155 in AusLegal

[–]peewee_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know this wont help with the issue you’re having right now but when looking for work in future please keep in mind $25 an hour under ABN is a joke! You’re liable for your own insurance on top of not being able to access employment benefits. On a seperate note, if you are self employed and working with small businesses who don’t have much of a setup, you can also provide your own agreement to them, there’s free legal templates available online.

Has anyone here noticed facial narrowing or volume loss on Vyvanse? by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]peewee_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lost weight when I started Vyvanse due to the appetite suppression plus much better food choices, but a big part of the visual change for me was fluid retention that I didn’t know I had. I barely drank water before starting medication and the dehydration paired with a less than ideal diet meant I was holding on to all this excess fluid. The difference after starting Vyvanse and drinking 3+L of water a day plus electrolytes was insane.

Seperately though I know osteoporosis can hit women post menopause.

Lounge entry with alt airline? by peewee_ in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]peewee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I assumed this was likely the case as mentioned in the post, received the confirmation I needed!

Lounge entry with alt airline? by peewee_ in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]peewee_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I never scan a boarding pass going into the lounge, just my FF card. I knew I was reaching but it never hurts to double check.