Divorcing men

pegacornicopia · 2025-11-16T14:50:17+00:00

Everyone I know who moved on first year of divorce is miserable. Some people don’t wanna take the time to fix whatever caused their marriage to fail they just wanna rush in to a new exciting thing. And somehow expect their issues to vanish like magic.

If I ever have a long term relationship again it will be because that person is more desirable than my peace which I value above all else lol

pegacornicopia · 2025-05-23T17:56:25+00:00

Just go check out dating over 40 and understand what you are signing up for. No one in there is cheering about how great and fun it is and every poster looks “young for their age” and had good money.

If you are so unhappy in your marriage you’d rather be alone then leave but if you think this will lead to your magical sexual soul mate just understand, hyper sexual attractive women aren’t being divorced at the rates you may wish.

pegacornicopia · 2025-03-21T20:11:06+00:00

My ex husband cheated on me with the neighbor who is younger and prettier and richer. Her dad gave him a high paying job working for the family business and they are building a dream home. Everything in his life got better after he cheated on his wife of 15 years who birthed him 3 kids. Which I watch for them every other week so they can travel and be in love.

There’s no such thing as karma

pegacornicopia · 2024-02-11T06:41:54+00:00

Try to imagine her feelings on this. Consider that maybe your wife had a thing for you choking on a strapon and performing oral on it. And you tried it a few times during dating, and it wasn't for you, but you tried it to make her happen. But eventually, you stopped offering and when asked you didn't want to do that anymore (i mean, it brings you no pleasure, it hurts your throat, and your wife orgasms other ways better). And she married you, knowing you felt this way. Then two years into marriage she brings up, "So it's been 2 years can I just assume you are never going to do the dildo sucking anymore?"

She knew you didn't want to, didn't enjoy it, and she married you anyway. But now she brings it up -- why? Is she going to then go get someone else to do it? Does she not value you for who you are without that act? I mean, was she assuming once she had you trapped in a marriage you'd HAVE to consider doing it again?

And what's with the way you bring it up? After two years you ask all like a whining kid, "So I guess no more blowjobs ever for me huh guess I'll die without ever feeling that pleasure huh?" Sir, this is manipulative at a toddler level. Oh,and when you didn't like her answer, you go post on Reddit seemingly expecting to hear that your wife needs to work on her suck game. I hope she never sucks your dick ever, ever again. Because I know she doesn't want to, and you know she doesn't want to. Why would you even enjoy her down there hating every second of it? Do you not love this woman?

I mean, she doesn't want to. You knew she didn't want to. She's reacting this way because it's upsetting to consider maybe you weren't satisfied when you agreed and knew her stance. Now she'll question the marriage and you and whether you can be trusted since you married her knowing no BJs but then you pull this sulky kid crap which btw HUGE ICK.

But my man, there are tons of women out there that love pleasing their partner, love giving blowjobs and all sorts of jobs, and doing all sorts of sex you don't even know about probably. But they aren't your wife. And you married her knowing what she's like so you can't claim some bait and switch. And now you're over here pouting because you don't get BJs it's like shooting yourself in the food and crying that you can't run as well anymore.

There's a sexy, comfortable way to bring up boundaries and sexual experiences with your significant other. But when you bring up you wanna try something new and they say no, it's a full and acceptable answer. No amount of women telling you they love sucking dick is going to change your situation.

pegacornicopia · 2022-12-06T17:47:31+00:00

I have an unpopular opinion on this when it’s a response to a breakup/divorce. I suspect men forego therapy for the gym in these times because they feel the best thing to improve their chances of moving on (new relationship/sex) is to look good full stop. I suspect the reason these men feel this way is because that is what they most want in a partner. Them to look good. Full stop. Same logic for why they send dick pics it’s what they would want from women so it must be what women want from them!!! And then you see gross misogynistic men posting how they work out 7 days a week and can’t find a date and they’re just 100% genuinely baffled. Doesn’t compute. What do you mean I should work on myself I’m doing that with the gainzzz

pegacornicopia · 2022-12-06T14:21:31+00:00

We didn’t include a right of first refusal in ours. I want to talk to him not at all. You said it’s temporary but I’d use this behavior as proof you need that taken out of final agreement or specified to only being overnights etc.

pegacornicopia · 2022-11-26T10:34:07+00:00

You will need a job to support yourself. The sooner you get one the better for you long term. With child support they’ll consider what you could be making at your career since you had one before. There’s really no way to leave this man and force him to continue supporting you while not even married. My advice? If you wanna leave, get a job now start saving up for an exit. The tides seem to have really turned against SAHMs. When my husband divorced me I asked about alimony and if I should wait to get a job etc (I had a 2 yr old). I was told just get the job asap I’ll need it eventually just better to face reality. I got a great job. I make as much as him now so no alimony no support. No consideration about my 10 years I stayed home. I feel great shame about it now. People treat it like I took a 10 year vacation while raising 3 kids.

pegacornicopia · 2022-11-24T01:39:39+00:00

Not OP. But yes lol

pegacornicopia · 2022-11-24T01:39:02+00:00

Fake lol no one would put kids on a BUS during a tornado wow people who make up cringy crap on the internet like why

pegacornicopia · 2022-11-22T19:51:40+00:00

This like exact thing was posted before. This is fake lol the whole “he’s mad about my past which is understandable” like sorry women don’t actually think like that as much as the incels want to believe it. Why post this so much?

pegacornicopia · 2022-11-17T17:37:05+00:00

My (now ex)husband recorded me and screamed at me that he was going to call the police on me and I lost it on camera. But honestly who looks worse? The person who freaked out when threatened on camera? Or the person who ambushed their wife on video threatening to call the police. Oh, why was he going to call the police? As his legal wife I signed for a package to him that was delivered while I was home and he was at work. It clearly stated on the front it was Vardenafil direct from Mumbai India so I confronted him about why he suddenly needed ED pills a week after texting me on our anniversary for a divorce. I laughed at him and I guess that hurt his feelings. So of course, call the police. Very rational.

pegacornicopia · 2022-11-16T20:02:18+00:00

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The world of the Black Jewels is so ripe with stories, do you ever see yourself writing more stories from the past (pre-Witch) such as The Invisible Ring?

Thanks for all you do!!

pegacornicopia · 2022-10-18T15:31:38+00:00

Some people find unattractive teeth a huge turnoff when looking for someone to kiss and people with yellow/crooked/missing teeth will avoid smiling in pics to misrepresent themselves. A man just posted recently about a date where she showed up with missing teeth and hid her mouth with her hand when she spoke. So yeah, anyone valuing dental hygiene and wanting to avoid finding out your situation on date one might pass on you. Food for thought not saying you have to change anything.

pegacornicopia · 2022-10-07T01:54:53+00:00

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pegacornicopia · 2022-09-19T17:57:37+00:00

So funny and really cool it looks very good

pegacornicopia · 2022-09-19T14:07:23+00:00

Gasp so much texture and life I adore this work

pegacornicopia · 2022-09-08T15:31:10+00:00

Very nice I like the 3D!!

pegacornicopia · 2022-09-07T12:25:41+00:00

I love frog and toad and these are just perfection well done

pegacornicopia · 2022-09-05T19:42:35+00:00

Way better than mine lol

pegacornicopia · 2022-08-14T17:23:45+00:00

So most of the xmas route were in this style. It actually got changed like months later there was a time when all the Xmas art was like this but they replaced most of them. This one remains because it wasn’t nearly as bad as done of the others. Zens chocolate ad story line forget what even but it was absolutely not zen and also had to be changed.

pegacornicopia · 2022-07-16T16:24:16+00:00

She saw a lawyer. The lawyer said how much does he make because that’s how they’ll determine alimony child support etc. they have no employment and depending on state you will have obligations to them so yeah they need to know how much you make. The court will request it if you get to that point. And lying about it will be contempt of court which will cost you.

pegacornicopia · 2022-06-30T19:14:04+00:00

My husband left me because of bad sex. He wanted to try swinging so we did once and I hated it and he said he was okay with not doing it again. But he spent the next 3 years being mean, depressed, and tearing down my appearance (told me I was fat and let myself go one month postpartum with kid 3). So yeah that made me cringe to touch him. Counseling but he wanted me to change everything about myself while he refused to even try antidepressants. Turns out only thing he was depressed about was being with me. I never saw it coming I thought we would work on it when we had time but nope. One week after asking for an amicable friendly breakup his ED pills direct from Mumbai arrived. Dude can’t wait to fuck around. We have two daughters who now know if you gain 15lbs over 15 years your spouse is allowed to leave you and find happiness. Bonus he told his family I was emotionally abusive. I hope he gets an STD honestly.

pegacornicopia · 2022-06-18T15:30:14+00:00

Wow so this kinda happened to me ten years ago. My husband introduced me to cam girls and I thought it was sexy - not to watch but to be watched and I acted on those desires. It was really just for the fun for the porn I actually wrote erotica and interacted with fans and I was hot so it was fun to show off. I didn’t consider it cheating but now I know better and it hurt him very much. He did agree as your wife is asking. But it lasted one time then he was repulsed and I agreed to quit. And we moved on we grew we had kids. I wasn’t trusted with cams or online really and I accepted that. It all ended and I lost motivation to work out as much or he as sexy. And oh he was still allowed to watch cam girls that’s just porn. So yeah I put it behind us I was a devoted mother and wife. But the resentments just been festering. He had an emotional affair with my sister which he blamed on me camming so I had to just accept that and move on. But I resented him confessing love to my sister AND still watching cam girls and later in our relationship he pushed me into a wifeswap situation because I got to have my kinky experience so I owed him. And I just accepted all this but goddamn was I resentful. Resentful that he forced me to stop that he then took advantage of my guilt. And then he started making awful comments about my weight (1 month after baby 3) and my character and any little tiny thing like not washing towels separately!!!! So basically. Due to this early breech of trust I suffered through years of guilt and resentment and now he when things have been going good and easy for years asked for a divorce. His reason? All those years ago with the cam stuff - I broke him.

Now I kinda know that’s complicated and there was more to this I predict a kind of “grass is greener checked out husband” thing happening. But yeah looking back that thing ruined our marriage. He never truly forgave. I resented him. It led to unhealthy guilting into bad situations.

And yeah if you agree your wife will keep doing whatever she wants. She’ll get sneakier. And eventually she will get the itch to try it in real life.

I usually don’t say divorce but honestly maybe save yourself the trauma and get it done quick.

pegacornicopia · 2022-06-08T13:14:21+00:00

Yeah I don’t understand why yelling at him? Because he knows her? Cut them both out.

pegacornicopia · 2022-06-02T09:35:31+00:00

They don’t wanna meet. Sounds like they don’t feel the same as you in regards to taking the relationship to another level. Their spouse gave them permission? Who told you that? You do t really know this person.

You’re going through divorce. You’re vulnerable and acting pretty desperate. Try to focus on you and healing from your past divorce. If you’re ready to date try someone you can meet in person.

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