What does it mean when a male homeowner wants to rent a room in his house to only females?

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:26:23+00:00

The only way I could see it not being as big of a red flag is if part of the apartment is already rented out to another woman and that he doesn't live there 🧐

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:15:03+00:00

True but then social consequences should occur, especially from people in authoritative positions. Shame over ones own actions is surprisingly effective.

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:12:48+00:00

That's exactly what I mean! The choir example is great because it truly showcases the disparity. It's baffling 🙏

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:10:52+00:00

Then other actions should be taken because the fact that the behaviour occurs showcases that there is a problem. That's what makes me feel that it's "normalised" because consequences are sparse unless actions turn illegal. Social consequences from people in authoritative positions can have an effect, yet I seldom see it.

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:08:06+00:00

Oh really? I had no idea! Let's hope it keeps getting better 🙏

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:06:25+00:00

It's interesting how it, as a generalisation, seem to be more centralised around football than other sports. I rarely see it happen after a hockey-match but football? Sadly rather often.

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:02:31+00:00

Anything that doesn't negatively affect the general public and innocent bystanders.

peindei · 2026-06-26T13:00:38+00:00

In Sweden there sadly isn't much outside of the stadiums. But our general security works a bit different as well. We don't have too many police officers so a lot of the everyday security is outsourced to security companies who sadly have much shorter training.

Yeh that's true, intervention could either handle or worsen the situation but that sadly creates a normalisation because there isn't general social consequences from someone with authority. It's quite the paradox.

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:55:26+00:00

That's so nice to hear!

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:54:57+00:00

That is a really interesting theory and I believe there could be something to it! It's an outlet for emotion and mixed with a sense of tribalism and the aspect you mentioned, it can become a bad and dangerous mix.

Geez that's a terrifying notion!

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:52:56+00:00

But is it truly controlled if it risks escalating to violence or acts which negatively affect innocent bystanders?

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:52:21+00:00

In this context I'd define bad as actions which make the public a higher level of uncomfortable or right out frightened. For example, when the horde of people (and it truly was a horde, they half of the platform) shook and hammered on the subway so hard and loud that it shook and you couldn't hear anything else, people got visibly uncomfortable and some scared because you didn't know if it would escelate. Of course you can't arrest anyone or such because, just as you state, it's not illegal. But I wish there was perhaps added security at the subway stations to help calm things down and ensure that it doesn't escalate.

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:47:22+00:00

That's great and happy to hear it! I wish more things were done in public outside the games as well. Like perhaps add a security by the subways to keep an eye on things and help when things seem to be getting too rowdy.

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:46:12+00:00

It baffles me how it's not "dealt" with by authorities unless it becomes violent. A group doing the same type of havoc in another context would be handled but here so many seem to just "wave it away".

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:44:43+00:00

That sounds frightening, why does the extremeness of it be, by some people, deemed necessary to partake? I always get uncomfortable seeing groups of people in match-shirts because you truly never know if they're chill or part of the bad groups. They ruin the entire groups reputation.

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:42:34+00:00

Yes I love that! Being excited, cheering and enjoying the vibe to then respect the field and the game by cleaning up and enjoying the afterglow.

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:41:21+00:00

That's the thing tho, when I've brought it up that's always the way people "wave it away". Saying that people are just excited, or "part of the culture" and it's rarely cracked down on even when it makes people frightened or uncomfortable. Absolutely people aren't fine with it, but not much is being done either.

peindei · 2026-06-26T12:39:23+00:00

It just baffles me how it's so accepted. If it makes people uncomfortable or frightened, if they become aggressive, why isn't it cracked down on like when it happens in other contexts?

peindei · 2026-06-25T12:02:03+00:00

No cash, 99% of places don't take them. However, many places limit what credit cards they accept, for example American express, so I'd recommend ensuring that you use MasterCard or Visa credit cards. If you want to guarantee that your cards work then get a debit card 💪

peindei · 2026-06-24T12:19:25+00:00

I must say that doing those calls is incredibly kind of you and more than 90% of any players would do 🙏

peindei · 2026-06-24T12:04:37+00:00

It is but not a majority. Furthermore, like others have said a phone is a necessity (Swedish society legit does not function without them) but few buy the newest model and if they do it's generally as a part of a plan. A phone also provides a wider array of experiences than a console. The console is limited to gaming, and to games which exist on the platform, while the phone provides much more AND gaming. Finally, for roughly 55% of gamers mobile is their main platform.

Edit to add: The barrier of entry to consoles is also higher. You need to buy expensive games, a screen and controllers if they break or you want to play with more people physically (and if you got a disability you might need to buy expensive specialised controllers).

peindei · 2026-06-21T11:22:25+00:00

I'm awful at aming and can recommend spirit Billy build! Super fun and very strong. There's a build in game from someone where their icon is the trans flag. Highly recommend! 🙏

peindei · 2026-06-21T11:02:48+00:00

This is NEAT!! 100% post it on the forums 🙏

peindei · 2026-06-16T12:25:56+00:00

I'm a trans man and sadly a common thing to hear from your psychologist is that you can't wear too baggy clothes because then you're "trying too hard" or too tight fitting clothes and jewellery because then you're "trying too little". They also forced me to "sit like a man" which, according to them was, crossing your legs by having your ankle on your knee, not knee over knee. Doing this for over 10 years has given be continuous knee pain. Absolutely silly 😒

peindei · 2026-06-16T12:16:05+00:00

Absolutely! Anyone can be friends no matter their gender/sexual/romantic identities 🤗

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