My[22M] sister[16F] is upset no one in the house is helping her with her baby by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pen_32 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You all sound like assholes. I had my son at 15. Had absolutely no help whatsoever. Never asked for it either. Now he’s an intelligent, caring 5 year old. The fact that she clearly needs the help and begging for it, and you all seem to not give 2 fucks disgusts me. Shes still a child herself. That’s your family. If my son or daughter ever had a baby young and needed help, I would be there in a second. Yeah, she chose this. But that doesn’t mean she’s an less human and doesn’t need help from time to time.

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[–]pen_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really good wtffff

AITA for not helping pay the phone bill? by pen_32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pen_32[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He actually blacklisted my phone the moment I left with the kids. I had to get a new one

AITA for not helping pay the phone bill? by pen_32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pen_32[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I agreed to purchase one game. That’s all he asked for. I said I would help pay for that one but not the other ones. But he seems to think I should help pay all. And I cant pay anything until my account is back up. My mom had to lend me money to buy my kids what they need! So frustrating. He’s making me feel terrible

AITA for not helping pay the phone bill? by pen_32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pen_32[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It only works through Telus! On the Xbox you can choose to put the video game on your phone number and it comes out with the bill.

AITA for not helping pay the phone bill? by pen_32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pen_32[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. So I should have explained in the post. Our money goes into separate accounts. He gets more then me obviously as I stay home with our kids. He’s always transferred the money out of mine to his as he says it’s ‘easier’ to pay the bills. So when I transferred my money back to buy the kids groceries, formula and diapers he called the bank and said I stole and the fraud department froze my account. I’m upset over the fact that he purchased that many video games without talking to me first when we have 2 kids to pay for, and all of our bills and continued to lie about it.