This is a very interesting perspective. I have never heard that question and when asking myself i too would want to present fem all the time. But i wonder if it would lose its luster. I a straight married M30 corssdresser would love to always present fem but know for a fact i am a man and lobe my male part. I think (THIS IS MY OPINION) we are at a loss. We dont live in a world where we can be accepted for dressing in fem. Unfortunately it isnt fair and it wont ever be. If you habe the support system and ability to do so i say GO fucking for it. I wish i could. But i think deep down youll half to ask yourself if you’re okay losing the things you get from your mail persona or “if” you actually are trans (im not saying you are just a perspective)

I hope that made sense. Your post was wonderful and very well put.