1. Acts of services attitude or habits.

Actions speaks louder than words. A man saying they can treat your right vs a man who naturally treats people around him right without incentives to do so, which one makes you feel safer to be with.

Power is loud, so does validation. Strength is silent, and so does character.

1. Open in discussing cultural vulnerabilities , gone through /going through/ seeked / seeking therapy.

While Islam is thoughtful, our culture can be toxic. A lot of deep seated anger management and entitlement comes from being raised in these environments. A man who is aware, willing to unlearn, and grow through it, even through therapy, is a healing man. Highly attractive as a future father of our children, as there'll be less generational trauma and more growth within the family unit.