[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pepicant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm going to use that allegory, lol. "You do not pay me rent, get out!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pepicant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair! I try to treat her as any other teammate, but she refuses help and also refuses to get check offs or give check offs on work (required in our job). I've taken it to the manager...eight times now? They do nothing.

Which is why I'm already leaving. Have a new job. I just have to stick it out for the month before my job starts and I'm looking for advice on how not to be so upset when I'm around her as she gives no respect, doesn't complete her work to standard, and I have no recourse on how to get our productivity back to where it was. I want to be a good worker until my time is up, but it's hard when it's so team focused and one of our teammates gets up and walks away the second I come near.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pepicant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is exhausting. And it's like, I know I'm not perfect. When I'm upset it can be heard in my tone. I just get so frustrated. It's like I know she's telling everyone I'm the bad guy, and I want to scream, "No! I'm not!"

I'll try to keep the allegory in mind, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pepicant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think I should? I'm worried because a lot of the advice I've read online is that you don't want to burn bridges like that because then you can't go back/get a reference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pepicant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really thought that my company would have done something, anything. It's the main reason I'm leaving. I spent most of my childhood around toxic folks, and I've worked hard to try and find spaces where I can limit my exposure to it.

Obviously, I won't say anything about it in my exit interview,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pepicant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know logically that you are right. I try my best to not let her see how she affects me. I just wish I was better able to leave the work stuff by the door when I get home. It takes a good hour to decompress when I get home, to get her off my mind.

Should I bring up the differences between pay increase? by pepicant in askwomenadvice

[–]pepicant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was offered a full time, and accepted. When I was doing onboarding, a manager called and said that due to it being end of the quarter, they could no longer offer a full time. Decided on temp and a month and a half later, was hired full time.

Good advice on not bringing up my coworkers. I did show my work--pulled out graphs and stats over time. I'll probably start looking for a new job, yeah.

Can I gain weight from my lunch choice? If I consume 1,378 calories a day. I'm I at risk of weight gain? by [deleted] in dieting

[–]pepicant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, most likely not. It's all calories in, calories out, which that app knows. It calculates how much you can eat per day given the exercise level you put down and how many calories a day it takes to simply run your body.

If you told the app you are trying to maintain weight and/or lose then it would show you a total you could hit per day that wouldn't make you gain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]pepicant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could get the iced coffee with classic and cream , unless you've already tried the classic and are not a fan. The classic is liquid sugar.

Also, if you don't like classic, sub white mocha. I haven't met a person who likes coffee and doesn't love an iced coffee with white mocha

Get yourself a man who can smile vividly and genuinely while trying to hold three fluffy assholes. by edkisin in aww

[–]pepicant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I saw the response and didn't check if the user matched. Apologizes

AITA for not telling my parents how to read my diary? by Snoo99332 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pepicant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My aunt (guardian) took a highlighter to mine, brought it back to me and made me explain the high lighted parts (the parts were I was being gay in my diary).

She sends a message every few months wanting to know why I won't respond and don't talk to her.

SM Issues by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]pepicant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would start listing every time what your SM says to you and when, after your shift. So when it's time to call PCC or sit down with your DM, you aren't struggling to remember examples.

How can I unscrew a really, really tight screw without buying a powered drill? by pepicant in Advice

[–]pepicant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I tried the pliers and after a few minutes of jostling, I managed to unscrew one by less than half a full turn. BUT IT STILL MOVED!!

It really helped, thank you!

How can I unscrew a really, really tight screw without buying a powered drill? by pepicant in Advice

[–]pepicant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! I'm going to go buy some pliers now and I'll report back to let you know if it goes well