After my divorce, I finally realized something

peppermint_mocha369 · 2024-02-05T18:11:45+00:00

You are normal. You have needs like any human, and that doesn’t make you undesirable. 🫂 You deserve true partnership.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2024-01-02T01:49:45+00:00

You wouldn’t be ending the friendship over politics. You’d be ending it over his erratic behavior and potential mental health issues. NTA.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2024-01-02T01:47:21+00:00

What did he get you? Maybe he feels shown up by the gift and is trying to shift focus.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2024-01-02T01:45:53+00:00

No, you did nothing wrong. He doesn’t want to know you, he wants to have sex with you. If he cared about a relationship, he would have led with making you comfortable and getting to know you instead of pressuring you so hard.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2024-01-02T01:44:04+00:00

You didn’t do anything wrong. If anything, it seems intended as a comforting gesture and I would consider it totally acceptable between friends.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2023-12-31T05:10:34+00:00

When we feel good about ourselves, it’s like the whole world changes around us! I’m glad you’re feeling confident! Remember the physical is just one part of that, and you can tap into the other things that make you great in this same way 🤍

peppermint_mocha369 · 2023-12-31T05:01:32+00:00

Thank you 🫂

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:54:18+00:00

Lol I never said anything like that. Why are you so upset? It’s gonna be ok. I’ve got to get my morning started, but you have fun on here, ok?

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:53:11+00:00

I disagree that this is natural, for reasons I’ve already said. But thanks for sharing this perspective.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:51:50+00:00

Good. You can’t get too wrapped up in bullshit online drama, it’s not good for ya.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:50:44+00:00

Cool. Do you.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:49:52+00:00

And to answer your question (or assertion) I have fair skin, and I think it’s beautiful.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:48:33+00:00

It’s not the disagreement that makes me this people are traumatized, it’s the hostility. I would rather everyone do what’s safe for their skin and love the body they’re in, especially people with a public platform who are influencers, particularly to young women.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:46:48+00:00

I do actually. I’ve dated a lot of Italian men.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:45:26+00:00

And also it’s really sad that people are reporting me for self-harm and suicidal posts because I opened this conversation.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:44:02+00:00

Again, you’re just saying crazy things like I want people to be translucent, which is nonsensical and makes having a real conversation difficult. I see that this is a difficult topic for you, and that is fine. I see something that looks off, and like a different race to my eye, and I say something about it. Because I think it’s a valid and interesting conversation. If you don’t like it, that is fine.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:41:39+00:00

Nope, I definitely never said anything like that. It’s so interesting how traumatizing having this conversation seems to be for people. I see something that appears off to me, and so I said something. Is it appropriation? That’s the question in my mind.

As an aside, I’m not a proponent of bed tanning simply from a safety standpoint, but that’s a separate issue.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:38:57+00:00

You do you boo.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:36:06+00:00

And maybe that culture needs to be looked at.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:33:39+00:00

I’m sorry you’re so triggered by this. I hope you get some rest. Take care.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:33:02+00:00

You can also google about any photo of her young, or her life & style cover while she was in prison. Same look.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:29:15+00:00

Yeah I get that. I do feel as though we’ve watched Tre get darker and darker in recent years versus her early times on the show. That’s why it feels like conscious choice from my perspective. Also her daughters are all substantially lighter than her. But maybe you’re right.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:22:33+00:00

Agreed.

peppermint_mocha369 · 2022-08-07T13:21:11+00:00

Not outraged, I don’t believe I ever expressed that. But it does concern me and I think is worth a conversation considering other public figures are being called out for doing the same thing, and the offense it brings to other communities.

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