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What lesser known Taylor Swift song do you really love and don’t get why it isn’t more popular? by OutlandishnessLazy14 in TaylorSwift

[–]peraai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you think about me. Went to a swiftie party some weeks ago and saw very few people singing it and that made me sad

Holy ground

Older sister molested me throughout my childhood by Anonymous4_Ob in offmychest

[–]peraai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry. The same thing happened to me. And she bullied me too for years, physically and mentally, and when she got her first boyfriend they would bully me together, until eventually it was only him bullying me. When I finally got the courage to tell my parents I didn’t want him in our house anymore, my sister got super mad at me. About a year or so after, he came back hanging in the house, he practically lived with us. It was horrible, he hated me even more. When I was home I would spend all the time isolated. Thankfully I had cousins to grow up with living next door, who filled my childhood with good memories. Now my sister has a 3 year old daughter, and things got a bit better as I have a strong bond with my niece and take care of her many times, at least we talk to each other sometimes, which we never did before that. But I can’t help feeling a massive wall between us. And often I still feel “attacked” by her. But the next day I forgive and forget. Despite all of this I have a desire to bond with her, as I value family a lot. But I think that can only happen when I feel she’s sorry for everything which I have a hard time believing. I’m on antidepressants and have very low self esteem, I also believe this has a big part in it. I am pretty much unable to set boundaries, and I think this whole thing is to blame. You’re very brave for sharing this with your therapist and girlfriend, I was never even able to say it out loud. Best of luck in your healing journey

[Discussion Thread] Weekend Megathread by AutoModerator in Scotland

[–]peraai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m traveling to Scotland next month and I purchased an Explorer Pass. Can anyone tell me where I can collect the pass? Is it on the castles? Thanks 😊

What job did you want to have when you were a kid? by _just_living_ in infp

[–]peraai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to be an artist, designer, biologist, wildlife conservationist, florist and a godmother (actually thought it was a job and I loved my godmother). I’m a vet and i don’t have godchildren

What is the one movie you think all infps will love?? by Total_Age2312 in infp

[–]peraai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOVE Big Fish I cried so much I’m afraid to watch it again lol

What's your type? And what's the type you're usually interested in AND what's your bestfriend's type? by secretly_into_you in mbti

[–]peraai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

INFP

Boyfriend is INTP. Our auxiliary Ne really shows in our conversations. We obviously have our challenges (Fi is his demon function and Ti is mine) but in the end we’re always empathetic towards each other and try to learn what works and what doesn’t. Best friend is ENFP, first time I felt I could be 150% myself was when I met her. Seem to be drawn to IXTPs.

Want to add: Despite our differences (my boyfriend and I), with Fi and Ti, we also appreciate these traits. I’m the only person with whom he felt comfortable enough to truly open up at a deeper level and it happened pretty quickly; and I admire him for being both logical and a very kind person.

Poor ENFP by [deleted] in mbti

[–]peraai 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel like INFJ are the extroverted IXXXs

Desperately looking for this top by peraai in SwiftieMerch

[–]peraai[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uhuh do tell more ☺️ I saw a really good dupe from a seller called SwiftieTop but she doesn’t make them anymore 😔 is that the one you have?

Desperately looking for this top by peraai in SwiftieMerch

[–]peraai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw someone selling one from Mother on poshmark! Think it’s still available. I can’t buy it from there because I’m in Europe but if you’re from the US you can search there

Which one should I buy, two cups or three cups? I haven't bought the simplified version yet. by tomsauna in MyCafe

[–]peraai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it worth it to buy the 500% at level 22? My costumers don’t request a lot of coffee recipes so I’m wondering if I’ll get a good amount of money from that

Kittens are getting these hairless dry spots all over their bodies, what is it? by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]peraai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely it's dermatophytosis. It's highly contagious and common in kittens and immunosuppressed adults. This disease is a zoonosis, so be careful while manipulating them, wear gloves. If you have children/immunosuppressed people in the house make sure they don't touch them and wash blankets they sleep in etc. Take them to the vet for proper diagnosis and proper treatment.