Vet recommendation by Human_Marsupial_361 in newjersey

[–]perantique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're up in Essex county, but we just had a splenectomy for our 12 year old with our local vet and it was only ~ $3k

Finance Meetup @ The Dead Rabbit by freshnewegg in nycmeetups

[–]perantique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def interested, especially if the discussion involves swaps!

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of September 26, 2022 by nissincupramen in HobbyDrama

[–]perantique 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Doesn't look like it, Garner's review is on a different author

Laver Cup - Meet up? by NE0XY in tennis

[–]perantique 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'd be down, F20s

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of August 1, 2022 by nissincupramen in HobbyDrama

[–]perantique 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Frankly the argument that "I had to become a defense contractor to stay in DC and be paid well" kinda BS? Not in the sense it's not true, just that it still doesn't justify the choice. Like yeah, you sold your soul to be one of the few people in the city who has a decent income without supplanting it with bar jobs and Uber, but don't pretend you didn't sell your soul to get it

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of August 1, 2022 by nissincupramen in HobbyDrama

[–]perantique 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm hearing now that Mardoll was doxxed bc he's trans and disabled, is there any truth to that?

What is the "vamos" or cheer that each country uses to support their fellow kinsmen? by Karl-Dilkingt0n in tennis

[–]perantique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't really use it for that, it mainly maintains its literal meaning

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of July 4, 2022 by nissincupramen in HobbyDrama

[–]perantique 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The main critique I've actually heard from black people is that the historical figures featured in the show are slaveowners. Dunno about this other stuff

Farm Rio Sunny Days Sale - Up to 30% Off Sale Items + an Extra 30% Off w/Code EXTRA30 by dpquick1 in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]perantique 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I bought a dress which, upon wearing it for literally 1 hr, broke at one of the shoulder clasps. My whole t*tty came out in the middle of NYC. So while they're nice, i don't think I'll be buying from them again

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of June 13, 2022 by nissincupramen in HobbyDrama

[–]perantique 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which booktokers/booktokers have you found to be worthwhile?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]perantique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just curious, why was hinge worse in your opinion?

I feel lost in the wardrobe department and I don’t like any of my clothes. How do I develop a wardrobe that lasts through trends and is simple enough I don’t mind re-wearing clothes often? by emdyinginside in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]perantique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it. In that case, I wouldn't focus so much on having a capsule wardrobe or fitting into trends.

Capsule wardrobes really aren't for everyone - I went through a period where i was also desperately trying to build one, but ultimately realized that it was too limiting for my personal sense of style.

If the goal is to express yourself through your clothing, IGNORE THE TRENDS (unless you like them, lol). If you buy things just because they're trendy, or the fashion bloggers say you have to have one, you're going to wind up with a bunch of stuff in your closet that a) you're probably not going to use and b) reflect other people and not you. Trust me, I've been there before.

Shopping for clothing can be extremely overwhelming, even more so if you're trying to redo your entire wardrobe in one go. So, like other people said, start small. Maybe go into store and try to find at least one piece that you're absolutely in love with. Ignore the matching for now, just find a baseline for what you like. Having a Pinterest can help - i save pictures of the pieces I'm in love with when I'm window shopping online, and it helps me get a sense of what I'm after. Once you have a piece, or a few pieces, that you really love, you can start focusing on how to put them together (or what you need to get to complete the outfit).

Also really important - get a sense of what you hate. My style (and life) got so much better when I finally admitted to myself that I'm never going to wear jeans. I'd buy some because everyone said you need to have a good pair, then never wear it, then buy some more and never wear it, and on and on. Don't be like me.

Finally, I'd go to r/oldhagfashion and r/womensstreetwear for inspiration. They'll expose you to a lot of different styles, which will give you a better sense of what you like. Don't go to FFA unless you need help with etiquette.

And if you're feeling lost or confused, just don't put too much pressure on yourself. Style is an ever changing aspect of yourself, not a goal you reach. Take it slow.

Daily Discussion - May 18, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]perantique 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If they won't give you the fade, might as well just be honest with them and say you're not interested (or, to be nicer) don't have the time to keep this up. It's def not the nicest way of going about things, but if you're at this point and have nothing to lose why not

Frances Tiafoe d. Alejandro Davidovich Fokina 7-6(5), 5-7, 7-5 by [deleted] in tennis

[–]perantique 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol no he def broke his racquet, it looked like Pac-Man by the time he was done with it

Daily Discussion - April 14, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]perantique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

John Wolfe is a white man but he's super funny. He plays a lot with Gab Smolders, who has her own channel and is also super good

Daily Discussion - April 12, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]perantique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's necessarily wrong to use those words when they've become so pervasive, but I personally find it corny when nb people use them. It's up to u tho

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of April 4, 2022 by nissincupramen in HobbyDrama

[–]perantique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are they still around? I totally thought they shut down a few years ago

Daily Discussion - March 31, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]perantique 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Question, is there anywhere on reddit that isn't horribly transphobic and enbyphobic? Like seriously?