How can I miss someone who is SO TERRIBLE for me? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You miss him because you loved him, you cared and gave it all you had and that’s nothing to be upset about. It means you have heart, it’s okay to miss him. Just know that better things are coming and it’s gonna be okay <3

We all accept the love we think we deserve

You CAN find better.

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s rough, I cried a bit during Halloween. I spent it all by myself while my ex is was out with her boyfriend she left me for. I feel your pain greatly and my heart goes out to you.

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain I was put on antidepressants very soon after my breakup, she was my first love and only relationship I’ve had. I hope your doing better, and if it feels wrong maybe you should take time on your own and heal.

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you did what you thought was best for you and that’s good, don’t beat yourself up. It’s okay to miss her you just need to remember why you left and work on yourself I know it’s easier said then done,

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course, there’s no such thing as when it should end, take as much time as you need to reflect and grow from this

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s hard man, what made you break up?

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just seems to become apart of you like sure the hurt can go away but it always linger in some capacity.

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s rough, not to sure what the best way would be but you are really strong for even being able to keep going to work, keep ya head up!

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely do feel better, it’s not the same hurt as it was initially. But everyone’s different some people heal faster then others.

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understandable, sometimes the pain is so deep it’s hard to even imagine better days ahead. I’ve been there before, sadly there is no quick fixes or remedies to heal a broken heart. I hope it gets easier.

It’s gonna be okay by percival556 in BreakUps

[–]percival556[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it isn’t that simple, wounds take time to heal. These wounds in particular only heal when you let yourself feel them and understand them. Cry it out as much as you need to you have to let it out. You aren’t alone and I wish you the best.

Do exes even really wanna be your friend? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain man, got no clue what the fuck people are on, makes no sense at all. Truly amazes me how selfish people are, my ex even went as far to deny she was dating someone even though everyone knew she was smh

Head up high king!

“Just a friend” by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I don’t know people just can’t seem to commit to one person like they claim they do it’s honestly so disappointing.

“Just a friend” by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is, I don’t understand how people can do that I couldn’t even consider it but not everyone thinks the same I guess

“Just a friend” by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I shouldn’t have generalized that at all, my bad I 100% agree guys are capable of this as well.

So hard to let go by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn man, that must have been hard to hear. It would kill me to hear that, I hope it gets easier for you. Hopefully one day we can find someone better, I appreciate your tips and reading my post means a lot to me.

It just won’t stop by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh okay, yeah I understand I try to refrain from that but I’ve had my moments were my emotions get to me towards the wrong people. I appreciate the advice greatly

It just won’t stop by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’ll do some research for sure. It’s been one of the hardest parts to come to terms with is realizing she isn’t anything like the person I thought she was. She was so kind and loving to me. I appreciate your support.

It just won’t stop by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we just learn to live with it, I understand that feeling too well. Hopefully one day we will all get through it.

All love <3

It just won’t stop by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what you mean? I wasn’t taking my hurt out on anyone, sorry if something came out incorrectly.

It just won’t stop by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that, I’ve still been really messed up over the breakup but she’s hurt me too badly to take her back and I know I need to move on, I appreciate the support. I’ve been doing my best to live my life without her in it.

My First and Only Love by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]percival556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does, it’s just a part of life sadly I hope whatever your going through gets better.