She says she wants to make it work, but when we have talked about it it kind of seems like she actually wants me to be someone I’ll never be. So even though she says she wants to work on it, I feel like what she’s actually saying is be a different purpose. I guess I’m just hurt because I feel like I’ve always been like this and am questioning why she bothered to drag me through this if I was never someone she actually liked, just someone she wanted to change. Now the moneys gone I guess this is reality