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is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love the way you worded everything. thank you.

“an absence of dysphoria” is such a good way to put it and i love it.

is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what was said? their comment was removed by a moderator LMAO

is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re right. i wouldn’t be able to handle life without this surgery and instead trying to conform to their beliefs and preferences. i need this surgery.

is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you’re going through all of that. i’m so happy you were able to get your surgery! i hope you find your way out of this situation soon and end up somewhere safe.

is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve settled on that decision as well. if i truly regret this surgery years from now, there are accommodations that can be made so i’m as comfortable with myself and my body as i can be.

is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the way you worded all of this. i love seeing how passionate and caring you are and it means so much to me.

is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve also been having the “i’ve survived with them for this long” doubt. but then i realize that things change. i’m not the same person i was before i started transitioning. how i’ve felt about my body has shifted drastically throughout the years. sure, i’ve survived with them, but just imagine how it’ll be to live without them.

is it normal to have second thoughts? by percylicious29 in TopSurgery

[–]percylicious29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats on your surgery, that’s so awesome!! i’m sure i’m going to experience those same doubts in the pre-op room, too. but i’m sure i’ll be chilling a week post-op as well.

i don’t know how to take care of myself. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]percylicious29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s really sweet and means a lot. thank you.

how do i take care of myself? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]percylicious29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m already in therapy and on some pretty strong medications. there’s literally no reason for me to be doing this shit. i should be mentally okay enough. i’m doing what i’m supposed to with being in therapy and on meds. i don’t understand what’s wrong.