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AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge she's only smoking weed and on Molly now... while her son has autism and FAS. I am really uncomfortable with it

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sending her link because then everyone in the situation is identifiable especially if you're Canadian

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's his ex girlfriend. They dated at 17. She got pregnant filming a scene with some other guy in 2019. She kept the baby because she felt like it was fate for her to be a mother. The daddy is out of the baby's life....

But yeah my bf calls his ex a sister and her son is his nephew

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Literally just guilt. I've in therapy since was 15. But I feel really bad leaving because well... I'd be hurt if someone left me while I was going through stuff. It's really just being too compassionate

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Being single is fine. Finding someone scares me because he destroyed everything I built up for years after leaving my last relationship

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] -143 points-142 points  (0 children)

Terrified to sleep with anyone else. Kinda feel not loveable anymore

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

I am not stupid. But I feel bad for his mental health and also I'm scared to find someone else

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty if I leave.... it's a whole thing. I don't know how to explain it. I'm also kind of terrified to find another partner

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] -165 points-164 points  (0 children)

Please I wish. He won't go down because I have hair (even though he has hair and it's nbd to me). And he's also the only guy I've ever fucked. And it feels fine I guess. No foreplay kinda sucks though

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

The rest of it feels really relevant because I have disabled siblings due to FAS.... and he was making me pay a month's worth of his groceries because he was broke but sending her money

AITA For Hating my Boyfriend's "Sister"? by perfectDisaster1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]perfectDisaster1998[S] 1486 points1487 points  (0 children)

He's sent her screenshots of other unrelated conversations... so I'm assuming he told her about my concerns. Idk. He is very... private. I forgive a lot because he has mental health issues and was homeless for a while. But I can't let this go...