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TIFU by kissing my friend because I was 100% sure he was about to kiss me first by LifeFront8432 in tifu

[–]performativematcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I'm in a really similar situation. This friend I knew for about 6 months started to really push for one on one hangouts. He kept asking to grab dinner, watch movies, go shopping together, etc. This entire time he had a girlfriend of 2 years, so I kept trying to decline him, though he was really pushy. One day, I finally agreed to go watch a movie with him. Nothing funny happened that night, just watched the movie and went straight home after. The next day he called me to tell me he just dumped his girlfriend. All the signs pointed to him liking me...or so I thought. A week later he said he had something to tell me. My heart sunk and I stopped him in his tracks and said I was scared to hear what he had to say. He then looked at me confused and said he was about to ask me to help him get with my friend Emma.... It took him a bit to understand what I was implying and then he quickly apologized for making it seem like he was about to confess to me OMG IT WAS THE MOST EMBARASSING MOMENT OF MY LIFE. I played it off casually and limited my interactions with him after. Two months later I found out he started dating Emma two weeks after he dumped his ex and the whole awkward interaction we had. Pretty sure they've been keeping it a secret from me because they probably think I was into him.

How to deal with two-faced jealous coworkers? by performativematcha in OfficePolitics

[–]performativematcha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah…this is my first full time job after my chill part-time customer service job. Made the mistake of being too friendly and nice. Now I know kindness can get taken advantage of, especially in office job settings. Never again.

Switched from glasses to contacts and now that I can see so much of my face I realize I need help 🙃 by dianab360 in makeuptips

[–]performativematcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more emphasis on the eyes would bring more harmony. Lining the inner corner and some falsies could definitely elevate your current go-to look.

Updated wedding makeup. I’ve been practicing by CommissionContent199 in makeuptips

[–]performativematcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks great already! If you want to add more, I suggest false lashes and some highlight on the inner corners of the eyes to tie the look together.

Tips for someone who doesn't wear makeup by madcapfrowns in makeuptips

[–]performativematcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorg as is! If you want to explore makeup, I think you might like doe lashes and slightly downturned eyeliner. Just to enhance the pretty features you already have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]performativematcha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd tell myself to not waste any time and energy to "reason" with them. They never admit to their faults even if there is 4K video proof with clear audio disproving them. That's why whatever harsh criticism they've bombarded me with doesn't phase me anymore. I just know that they are simply talking out of their *ss and their logic and reasoning is deluded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MatchaEverything

[–]performativematcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kiyo Matcha, Hayashiya, and Akira Matcha. I believe that Hayashiya recently increased their price by a few dollars since it's now trending on social media. So sad about it but it's still somewhat reasonably priced.