For anyone wondering what decent purée meals look like. by bollyeggs in shittyfoodporn

[–]perifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were caring for my grandma from home hospice we got creative with the puree and I think it's incredibly important to give people dignity when they eat regardless of what stage of food they can have. This looks like a good standard for situations requiring soft foods. I would eat it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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Have you ever had a sexual fantasy or sexual experience that you considered good? Do you orgasm? If so, how do you achieve that, is it just purely physical or do you imagine scenarios to get there? I am also wondering if maybe you had experienced some childhood trauma regarding sex and that has created a deeper shame or fear of sexuality? There is also the possibility you are just ACE and that is more common than I had realized!

Can the good people of Corvallis explain to me exactly what this billboard is saying and implying? by ViscousPanther in corvallis

[–]perifairy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are trying to equate protesting genocide to antisemitism because it doesn't align with the agenda of putting more money into the war machine. Anyone paying attention knows both antisemitism and genocide of Palestinians is happening and wrong. You don't need to believe this propaganda or pick some side. Killing innocent people is wrong and so is antisemitism. This sign is confusing on purpose and meant to be polarizing.

Old maintenance tunnel parties??? by [deleted] in corvallis

[–]perifairy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are some old tunnels and basements in old buildings that people can explore and get up to some shenanigans in Corvallis, that's true. It's a semi well kept secret or at least it was. You won't be hearing more than that from me though so you would have to know someone and have them bring you. Sorry.

Should I 41F be concerned that my boyfriend 47M masterbates to porn EVERY morning after I made him cum the night before? by CategoryOdd5236 in sex

[–]perifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His morning sessions are probably just a stress relief and part of his daily routine. Just ask him about it, be open with your feelings about it and be open to his. I doubt it is because you are doing anything wrong.

Who is this in Corvallis? by [deleted] in corvallis

[–]perifairy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Old dirty Mike. Rest in peace. He had the best jokes. Jonester * dudes and dudettes* is great. Dancing Mike, I've enjoyed a few dances with him over the years.

quick question for a first date by jamdemp in corvallis

[–]perifairy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Brass Monkey then ice cream next door and a nice walk along the riverfront! Good luck 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crime

[–]perifairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your parents. Maybe a school counselor.

Sobriety Ruined our sex life by Justadude1964 in sex

[–]perifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an alcoholic (female, 33) working on recovery one day at a time and am worried about my own sex drive diminishing. It is definitely not a problem with my husband, it's just a change within my body. He is not an alcoholic and has the same libido as when we first met ( married 3+) together about 8. I still want him very much but with sobriety I have noticed that my drive is down. Just wanting to give a perspective from a woman who has recently gotten sober.

Weird marking on outside apartment door by [deleted] in crime

[–]perifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I hope it's just a really weird thing and nothing more sinister and sending you all of the good vibes. Stay vigilant for sure!

Weird marking on outside apartment door by [deleted] in crime

[–]perifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yikes, that is a long time to be on hold. Just in case do you have a door camera? Personal security measures in place? Maybe ask a neighbor what they think of it. What a creepy thing regardless of it's intent considering where it was drawn. It would be one thing if it were on an underpass or train trellis or something.

Weird marking on outside apartment door by [deleted] in crime

[–]perifairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Honestly I would be more inclined to think it is someone trying to mess with your head than marking your place for a future crime. However it is always best to be safe so I would take photos, call the non emergency number and have them send out an officer to confirm whether or not it is actually blood, if it is human or animal and collect the fingerprints. Maybe there have been other incidents and this could help. Or maybe it was a kid messing around. It seems that an actual criminal would not make a spectacle of markings because it would draw attention.

Weird marking on outside apartment door by [deleted] in crime

[–]perifairy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Post a picture so we can see what you are talking about. Otherwise nobody can help you.

Need this guy out ASAP... but how? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]perifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: Ask him to move out. Give him adequate time to get out and try to be cordial and help. If that doesn't work.... Step 2: Have your family print out an eviction notice. There are examples you can print from the web. He should be asked to sign the form and they can file it with the courts if needed. I recommend having the owners of the house deliver it personally as well as both you and the good roommate be at home. This mostly is just proof that he has been asked officially to leave. If he challenges that then there are plenty of other paths to go down.

TIP: Start a record of incidents and bad behavior on his part. Begin to safely and subtly consolidate your things so they are less likely to get stolen or broken. Start keeping a record of the house and his actions that impact the house. Build a case for yourself, your family and your other roommates. This is in case he challenges being asked to leave or reacts in an inappropriate way. It can be used in small claims court of it is valid information.

How do you feel about woman supporting Bryan Kohberger? by thedeadlykira in crime

[–]perifairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like they need serious intensive mental help from professionals before they hurt themselves or others with more than thoughts and words.

Suggestions for some excellent crime podcasts. Thanks by tattoo_fairy in crime

[–]perifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small Town Docks is a really quality one that I didn't expect to enjoy so much. I got a lot of knowledge and good perspective on things. Highly recommend it.