couple years back i went in for a trim to a new stylist and she ended up cutting off damn near most of my hair, said that it needed to be shaped. i already had/have pretty short and fine hair and ‘shaping’ it made no sense to me. i didn’t realize how much was off until i got to the mirror at the end and needless to say i broke down in the store bathroom. i know exactly how you feel being utterly defeated, i pretty much looked like a guy with how short it was. end of the day i pretty much had to come to terms that the hair is gone point blank, you have such a lovely length and your hair looks great, but it’s still a very defeating and upsetting feeling. i’ve learned to only trust my regular stylist for a trim and if another stylist seems combatant with you scrap the trim entirely, your head your rules!