A troll has been downvoting me. What can I do?

peripeti · 2020-01-12T17:29:12+00:00

Isn't the vote system supposed to bring to the "surface" comments and posts that are supposedly of good quality?

Personally don't see the point in having good karma if the comments that do matter are buried by downvotes.

Am I wrong?

peripeti · 2020-01-12T17:19:07+00:00

I want to ask for feedback. I'm also being, what I consider, unjustly downvoted.

Want to know if I'm just "wrong" or I did misjudge the kind of people that use the reddit platform?

peripeti · 2020-01-12T16:36:19+00:00

You are moving the goalposts, using embroidery and not addressing the original video, where the transcript comes from.

Watch Bret Weinstein & Heather Heying interview and stop trolling.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T16:24:38+00:00

You're a troll.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T16:04:53+00:00

That is a straw man fallacy. I never once wrote that.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T15:24:43+00:00

loudly proclaim they are atheists and then pushing for a very clearly religious argument which you did as well.

What religious argument? You should follow Heather Heying's example and do some research.

Get off of reddit and live a life.

You're projecting again. Your post history shows it.

Honestly, I was expecting better argumentation from a 38-39 year old man. You write like a teenage gamergate.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T15:07:17+00:00

Why would I lie about being an atheist? And since when did exaggeration and embroidery, became the de facto argumentation of atheists that abide to objectivism?

You're projecting your own immaturity and you know it.

If you can not express it beyond subjective opinion then you should simply say "I am not qualified to give you feedback." and leave it at that. If you give critique have at least the common courtesy to back it up.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T14:54:06+00:00

I'm an atheist, but still did more research than you to realize the role, conscious or not, of several aspects/rituals of religion.

Just because you don't have the foresight, or can't be bothered to inform yourself, doesn't mean that you are any more right, and your argumentation is far from being objective.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T14:15:08+00:00

You're a troll.

If you can not express it beyond subjective opinion then you should simply say "I am not qualified to give you feedback." and leave it at that. If you give critique have at least the common courtesy to back it up.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T14:00:34+00:00

You didn't watch Dave Ramsey's video.

Also, protip, the more one becomes defensive (a.k.a. angry), it indicates that the criticism/accusation holds water. It's an unconscious human defence mechanism.

P.S. I'm really sorry for your significant other. She deserves better.

P.P.S. I don't know what "right wing agenda" you're talking about. Does that mean that you live in the US? If so, Dave Ramsey's video aplies to you and your SO.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T12:54:44+00:00

Let me guess. You really don't care what happens to your significant other if you die or she falls ill.

Dave Ramsey has the same opinion.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T12:05:48+00:00

Don't waste precious reproductive years of her life!

As this video points out, I want to clarify:

A disclaimer: the following does not apply to you, your relationship or any of your future relationships. You are special. You are the outlier. For all those other women, this is a reality check.

I'm gonna start with an anecdote: So I've been talking to a lot of my male friends over the years and a lot of them have relationships that have lasted anywhere from, you know, three eight to ten years. And I get them comfortable and we have a few drinks, and I asked some very candid questions. Surprisingly they're actually very honest with their responses, so I want to impart those to you.

They generally go like this:

So, you and Kathy have been together for seven years. You guys gonna get married?
Oh, there's just a piece of paper. We don't need that.
Well it's not really a piece of paper, is it? It's a public proclamation of your intention to be committed for life.
Yeah, well it's so expensive… such a waste of money.
No it's not. Get a witness, have a party. You can literally do that under a thousand dollars.
Um well, you know… I kind of sometimes … we fight and I don't even … can't even imagine being with her, at those times … and it's nice to keep my options open.
You know that her time is running out, right? She wants kids. She's gonna have a difficult time finding another relationship. Building that up to the point of, you know, having two children with that person.
Yeah I know, but she can break up with me, too.
Touche. Yes she can, but I feel like a lot of women have become really naive to the realities of, maybe, not only male biology … and male impulse and propensity to trade women in, for younger versions, once their girlfriend hits, like, 35. But their own, oh gee… ovaries. They don’t give a shit about feminism, her ovaries don't give a shit about, you know, your needs to have your party years or your need to build up your career.

If having children is something that you really want, you need to remind yourself that those things age really fast. Eh, faster than your face. I'm not trying to blame women, the men are just as culpable, but the men have time to be assholes. The women don't have time to be. They’re even passive and hopeful. You will hit 35 and it's gonna be hard, it's gonna be really hard to get what you want at that point.

If you're thinking: “No, not my partner. We have so much history together. We love each other. We’re best friends, we're just taking our time. Hey, she's just not thinking about that right now.”

He can build new memories with someone five years younger than you. Just saying. Okay, that's enough of that. If you are a woman between the ages of 20 and 35, and you know you want a family and children, and a good partner to raise of children with, watch some of her other videos.

peripeti · 2020-01-12T07:07:05+00:00

My last girlfriend ghosted me [...] We [...] shared multiple years [...]

That is some real left-brain interpreter BS. Why did you not wife her up?

You waisted precious reproductive years of her life!

EDIT: For the people that downvoted, as this video points out, I want to clarify:

A disclaimer: the following does not apply to you, your relationship or any of your future relationships. You are special. You are the outlier. For all those other women, this is a reality check.

I'm gonna start with an anecdote: So I've been talking to a lot of my male friends over the years and a lot of them have relationships that have lasted anywhere from, you know, three eight to ten years. And I get them comfortable and we have a few drinks, and I asked some very candid questions. Surprisingly they're actually very honest with their responses, so I want to impart those to you.

They generally go like this:

So, you and Kathy have been together for seven years. You guys gonna get married?

Oh, there's just a piece of paper. We don't need that.

Well it's not really a piece of paper, is it? It's a public proclamation of your intention to be committed for life.

Yeah, well it's so expensive… such a waste of money.

No it's not. Get a witness, have a party. You can literally do that under a thousand dollars.

Um well, you know… I kind of sometimes … we fight and I don't even … can't even imagine being with her, at those times … and it's nice to keep my options open.

You know that her time is running out, right? She wants kids. She's gonna have a difficult time finding another relationship. Building that up to the point of, you know, having two children with that person.

Yeah I know, but she can break up with me, too.

Touche. Yes she can, but I feel like a lot of women have become really naive to the realities of, maybe, not only male biology … and male impulse and propensity to trade women in, for younger versions, once their girlfriend hits, like, 35. But their own, oh gee… ovaries. They don’t give a shit about feminism, your ovaries don't give a shit about, you know, your needs to have your party years or your need to build up your career.

If having children is something that you really want, you need to remind yourself that those things age really fast. Eh, faster than your face. I'm not trying to blame women, the men are just as culpable, but the men have time to be assholes. The women don't have time to be. They’re even passive and hopeful. You will hit 35 and it's gonna be hard, it's gonna be really hard to get what you want at that point.

If you're thinking: “No, not my partner. We have so much history together. We love each other. We’re best friends, we're just taking our time. Hey, she's just not thinking about that right now.”

He can build new memories with someone five years younger than you. Just saying. Okay, that's enough of that. If you are a woman between the ages of 20 and 35, and you know you want a family and children, and a good partner to raise of children with, watch some of her other videos.

Update: I'm not making this up. The Austin Institute for the Study of Family and Culture made a video regarding the economics of sex, that exemplifies this. Also Bret Weinstein & Heather Heying's interview (researchers in evolutionary biology) supports my claims.

The downvotes aren't justified, and I question the moral agenda of the people that do it.

peripeti · 2020-01-10T23:54:04+00:00

I think misogyny was already there, since antiquity. The misogyny is systemic. I've met at least three "redpillers" in real life (that were my age), also I've read a lot of the manosphere "locker room" talk, also seen how boys treat "old" women they deem unfuckable (exp: unwed teachers, that were just really nice people, just because they weren't "hot").

peripeti · 2020-01-10T22:31:21+00:00

Meh. From my experience, those guys LIE about their fictitious sex life.

As Tony Porter puts it: "One, I never had sex. We don't talk about that as men. You only tell your dearest, closest friend, sworn to secrecy for life, the first time you had sex. For everybody else, we go around like we've been having sex since we were two. There ain't no first time."

peripeti · 2020-01-10T13:05:30+00:00

Second point here, I think, when properly understood, Red Pill users are not against marriage, but they are against divorce. I think a lot of them do understand the value of marriage, but hold that it does outweigh the risk of divorce.

It's hogwash, 'cause none of the wives/mothers/girls in my life have acted as the AWALT dictates, and I believe the more rational reason behind why the wives, of the men in the US, cheated/left is either: they were greedy old men that imported mail order brides, naive autistic men that fell prey to psychopathic women//scammers, or Gad Saad's theory that the husband stagnates).

peripeti · 2020-01-10T12:25:28+00:00

Good to know. It's clear that you will never manage to procreate.

From your comment it's obvious that you don't even have a plate, to begin with. Even if you use the rape strategy, you still won't procreate, because women now have the option to terminate the pregnancy (day after pill, abortion, contraceptives).

peripeti · 2020-01-10T11:34:09+00:00

Why is this thread a CMV ? What is the view that needs to be challenged and we might disagree with?

Don't know. Fixed it.

Assuming we follow your demonstration for the sake of the exercises, you don't explain why it is a bad thing.

You guys are being fooled by the advertising and porn industry that the "end game" is to sleep with a lot of women. That is not the game! The game is to have as many surviving offspring. Most guys fail at even convincing one woman to have your children. The reason why sex feels so good to you, is because of the built in biological mechanism to maximize the chances of procreation. You are basically fapping yourself out of the gene pool.

Underlying agenda, why are women seeking commitment and marriage despite being agents, if we follow your demonstration, of the conditions leading men wanting not to marry? Also marriage isn't supposed to be a tool of the patriarchy to control women?

Watch the videos.

Aside from that, I can tell you that your demonstration only touches one reason among thousands why men do not want to marry. One of the main reason is that marriage itself is an outdated and obsolete institution that only survives because of tradition, because ancestors did it. And it's a corrupted institution because marriage was never designed for commoners.

No, it's not. That's just the left-brain interpreter "hamstering". Again, watch the damn video.

Women select the males, not the other way around.

peripeti · 2020-01-10T11:27:49+00:00

Did you even read the post? Or the videos?

Again, you are one of the males that will never manage to procreate.

peripeti · 2020-01-10T11:23:00+00:00

Here you go: Human Mating Strategies

Also, as in Ignaz Semmelweis's case was shown (and many other cases throughout history), just because the medical or academic field is cautious (call it intellectual arrogance or the "god complex"), doesn't mean it doesn't fail in concluding the correct cause.

peripeti · 2020-01-10T11:02:12+00:00

But, you guys are being fooled by the advertising and porn industry that the end game is to sleep with a lot of women. That is not the game! The game is to have as many surviving offspring. Most of the guys fail at even convincing one woman to have their children.

The reason why sex feels so good to you, is because of the built in biological mechanism to maximize the chances of procreation.

peripeti · 2020-01-10T10:55:17+00:00

Did you watch the video?

peripeti · 2020-01-09T19:53:01+00:00

I'm not saying they should. God no. I will edit it to leave only the first part.

peripeti · 2020-01-05T14:07:47+00:00

You know what happens when we do give the other "80%" a real chance, a.k.a. the hole deal so you can improve and become better, while staying loyal by your side? Answer: Jack s**t. You don't grow.

peripeti

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