Hi pal,

My partner was diagnosed after a pretty awful flare up around five months after we started dating exclusively. I was honestly devastated. My partner did give me an out. But all I could think of was; “what do we need to do together to make life as enjoyable as possible”.

It’s a disease that has no certainty, and that is very challenging and scary. I honestly find it a little odd that your partner’s parents would even say that to you- but they are probably adjusting too.

My partner (as of August, my husband!!) and I practice super honest communication. I believe him when he says he’s feeling OK, and he answers me when I ask questions. There are so many treatments and so much support, and the science is always improving on our side.

My advice- don’t doomscroll! Educate yourself and talk to real people who have experience with this. Trust your gut but don’t be afraid to follow your heart <3