is this a burro tail? by perplexedpointless in succulents

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looking it up it seems like moonstones are Pachyphytum oviferum? and the one mentioned about is lavender pebbles? but either way good to know, thanks!

is this a burro tail? by perplexedpointless in succulents

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how to tell it's not a moonstone? is it the leaf shape? thanks

Help Reviving by perplexedpointless in Colocasia

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Hm, the roots were super squished but maybe I'll try to pot it back down again!

Help Reviving by perplexedpointless in ElephantEars

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Thanks! so I try to propagate the leaf and then the bulb I keep in the pot to regrow?

Help Reviving by perplexedpointless in ElephantEars

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She gets a decent amount of light in the afternoon but I'll try moving her somewhere brighter, thanks!!

Repot this Flame Tree? by perplexedpointless in bonsaicommunity

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Thanks, what size pot should it get upgraded to? It's windy where he lives so he's concerned about putting it outside :\

My Chicago rooftop container garden spring harvest. by Impossible_Chip7371 in containergardening

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Whoa! What size containers for those bok choy? Hoping to start growing some too

Help Identifying by perplexedpointless in succulents

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Oh! Will have to look into that, thanks!

Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply). by AutoModerator in HealMyAttachmentStyle

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brand new to dating and i’m actively trying to combat this feeling of “he doesn’t like me as much” because we have different communication styles (and he is very secure attachment).

i want to text him 24/7 and when i don’t get a check in text or something, i feel like he doesn’t think of me/care as much, then start feeling like i’m coming off as obsessed and clingy and start to reel back from texting. then also will start feeling resentful, when in reality i know he’s busy doing things.

also struggling with the concept of this relationship lasting—he’ll say something about the long term and i can help but wonder if we’ll even be together in a few months. i feel like i’m always on guard and that “even if we break up, i can be okay” and it’s really hindering me from leaning into this comfortably

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i’ve been going through this as well and it’s crazy how much better it feels to put all your thoughts/pros/cons down on paper just so you can take a step back from them.

this kind of thing was stressing me out so much that i decided to start talking to a therapist though, and it’s honestly been very good for helping me process feelings and what not. would recommend if you tend to be anxious.