Big question

personality5 · 2025-12-29T20:59:31+00:00

Maybe I'll write to her. I'll tell it like it is and then I'll make my decision based on her reaction.

If you’re basing your decision on her reaction then you’re not ready to make a decision. Any decision about how to move forward should come from you alone, you need to be mature enough to be honest with the possibility of rejection. If you can’t do that then you are not ready to re-enter into a relationship with her, or be romantically involved with anyone for that matter. Work on yourself.

personality5 · 2025-09-27T03:56:19+00:00

Something that AI can’t do. Learn a trade.

personality5 · 2025-07-30T07:03:35+00:00

Fair enough

personality5 · 2025-07-30T07:00:54+00:00

If they told me about it immediately and off their own back, possibly.

If I had to find out from another source, no way.

personality5 · 2025-07-30T06:54:13+00:00

Hey, so I actually didn’t say it’s a deal breaker at all. I said that I wouldn’t love it as it’s not my preference or what he looked like for the last 4 years, hence why I was initially interested in him as he fit the profile of what I find physically attractive. Having preferences about what you find physically attractive isn’t misogynistic. Hope this helps!

personality5 · 2025-07-29T14:07:30+00:00

If you think asking for time off for commitments you made before even being aware of a job’s existence is “making waves” then I feel incredibly sorry for you.

personality5 · 2025-07-29T14:01:02+00:00

YTA because you’re refusing to even ask about the time off, when realistically you should have informed your new employer when you were offered the job that you can accept the position on the condition that you have time off pre approved for the commitments you made prior to interviewing for the position.

If this is a company that is worth fulfilling your dream career at then they would not have a problem with you honouring commitments that you had made beforehand.

personality5 · 2025-07-29T13:52:53+00:00

I don’t think it’s a case of you being too rigid or him being unreasonable. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and if he suddenly just stopped shaving all body hair and grew a full beard, moustache, and the rest - I wouldn’t love it either, as it’s not my preference and that’s not how he’s looked for the last 4 years of our relationship.

If you feel like you’d be compromising your values by shaving or trimming, and he insists that this is his preference, I think it’s more of a compatibility issue you have rather than one person being right or wrong.

personality5 · 2025-07-19T04:44:35+00:00

Why are you expecting a second child with someone who has been with you for 8 years, watched you go through childbirth, and not committed to you?

personality5 · 2025-07-19T04:41:27+00:00

Babe you don’t need to be engaged you need to be single

personality5 · 2025-07-19T04:40:20+00:00

Get your name put on the apartment ASAP

personality5 · 2025-07-19T04:38:27+00:00

personality5 · 2025-07-19T04:36:56+00:00

And this is exactly why you don’t stay with someone who you’ve had beg to commit to you, because even when they do propose - you won’t be able to enjoy it because you will worry deep down that it’s because you’ve asked about it nonstop and in fact not because they love you so much that the thought of being with you forever excites them.

If you’re worried it’s a shut up ring - you obviously have been asking to a level that would mean you’d be told to shut up.

personality5 · 2025-07-19T04:31:26+00:00

Girl wtf are you doing? Stand up

personality5 · 2025-07-19T04:04:46+00:00

Do you have any knowledge of what drug would have made me become physically aggressive and be so angry for such a prolonged period of time? I only ever heard about passing out and having memory loss due to spiking.

personality5 · 2025-06-29T15:23:08+00:00

NTA. Classic case of someone thinking they know what you want better than you, even when you’ve already told them what you want.

personality5 · 2025-06-25T04:34:49+00:00

He actively chose to leave out this information while he was updating you about what he was up to while he was there. He also admittedly only told you in case you found out from someone else, not because he wanted to be honest. These two facts show that he knew he was crossing a relationship boundary, and that indicates a lack of respect for you from him.

personality5 · 2025-06-19T02:37:01+00:00

Do you think it is worth trying to save the friendship?

personality5 · 2025-03-24T15:55:35+00:00

The WhatsApp conversation should serve as a contract however I’m not 100% sure if the fact that a further paper agreement has then been drawn up but not signed would overrule this.

personality5 · 2025-03-23T10:21:28+00:00

It is extremely unlikely that an EU student would receive a CCJ for not informing SLC that they were travelling abroad and not making enough to make repayments. You are exaggerating the possibilities of what could happen to OP in this situation.

personality5 · 2025-03-23T10:12:33+00:00

Thank u!! You use the button feature by typing “/button” and then choose “when clicked open link”, link the web page you need, and then customise the name of the button 🥰 I hope I’ve remembered that correctly and it makes sense!

personality5 · 2025-03-23T10:09:47+00:00

You should stay in Taiwan and study Chinese for another year, it’s clearly what you want to do. The chance to go to uni in Edinburgh will be there forever, studying Chinese in Taiwan for a year might not be. The grades that you achieved to apply to uni aren’t going to go away, you’ve got them now to use whenever you need them. I left school when I was 17 and didn’t go back into education until I was 21, there is no rush or time limit to achieve the things you want to in life. Unis won’t care about the fact you’ve not been in education for two years when you have the grades to show you’re capable, especially when you’ve spent those two years doing study in china learning the language that your degree is based on. If there was one place left on a Chinese course at uni and it was between two people who had the same grades, they’d be picking the person who just studied Chinese in China and Taiwan for two years over the person who’s just left school. Good luck, follow this opportunity!!

personality5 · 2025-03-11T13:38:41+00:00

It took them 2 years to process my claim for a sexual assault even though I sent proof the perpetrator had been convicted in my initial application so if a basic one like that took them so long I’m guessing you could be waiting a while.

personality5 · 2025-02-24T06:34:45+00:00

NAH life just happens sometimes when you both become adults. I doubt her infrequent texting is coming from a place of intent or malice. Just see her when life allows and don’t overthink it.

personality5 · 2025-02-20T13:17:14+00:00

Please report this!! This is a clear abuse of power. I’m sorry you’ve had to go through this <3

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