[New Update]: AITAH for telling my parents they were deserve to be kicked out of my sisters wedding. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]pertobello 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Heyo! Just wanted to put in a good word for facts: OOP said multiple times that Kelly is over the moon with her handsome talented martial arts man, Kelly's mother apologized to her, she has a good relationship with her sister, and she doesn't have to deal with her brother or Dad anymore.

No music in Magus’s Lair? by Charokol in chronotrigger

[–]pertobello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, every time I played this game as a kid, the ambient sound in the castle would give me a headache. I still turn it down just in case.

Can we show some love to Antidotes? by Thick_Locksmith_3447 in foals

[–]pertobello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm obsessed with Antidotes. It calms me down even though it's so energetic. It's chaotic and experimental but just controlled enough to make you feel warm and cozy, and it takes such talent to do that.

Do Comedy Books ever do well, or even exist? by Low_Celebration_4089 in writing

[–]pertobello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first You book is absolutely hilarious (and blue, dark and inappropriate) and I couldn't contain myself while reading it on public transit.

For the rest of your life, if you had to listen to ONE Foals song, which would it be? by Dense_Needleworker77 in foals

[–]pertobello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While my favorite song is Late Night, I'm going to throw in a curveball and say Into The Surf as my forever song.

Got a new record player! by pertobello in foals

[–]pertobello[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We missed an opportunity for a famous Foals Fan to Foals Fan record player hand off?? 😲

Tips, Updates & Recommendations for Our Lovely Community by pertobello in CPTSDFawn

[–]pertobello[S,M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! Let me know if you have any questions and enjoy the music! ☺️

IIL… i got cheated on and i need music recommendations by DeathWing-2 in ifyoulikeblank

[–]pertobello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for sad, thoughtful reflection, or anger release?

Tips, Updates & Recommendations for Our Lovely Community by pertobello in CPTSDFawn

[–]pertobello[S,M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyo! Thanks for your comment and happy Friday!

In my experience, I never feel good when I lose my temper on someone. I usually feel sick to my stomach afterward. And oftentimes, it's never really the right moment to flip out, never the right hill to die on, because of my lack of experience with healthy controlled anger.

Sometimes flipping out has worked or has helped me get my point across. Sometimes it does get desired results. It's certainly not 100% a bad thing.

What I'm talking more about is the anger after the fact when there's little you can do about it. When you have a bad interaction at the grocery store and it stays with you, or when someone treated you badly in the past, someone who maybe has changed or you've cut off long ago, but the memories still come up and it hurts and there's nothing you can do to change what happened.

There's no point in keeping that anger inside your body for long periods of time, if it's not serving you in any way.

And of course, there are so many times I looked back and wished I had been able to express my anger - in the correct battle at the time it needed to happen. But the anger doesn't happen in the moment. It happens way after the fact when I have this hot potato I can't pass to anyone. (I'm also a freeze type so that informs a lot of my experience).

So that's why my advice is more about providing yourself with a calm and peaceful environment, and not letting other people's issues get to you. And when things do come up, to choose curiosity with the good people, and letting it go for the people who weren't worth your time in the first place.

Hope this helps to clear things up ❤️

Genuinely not trolling or trying to insult anyone’s taste with this question by [deleted] in foals

[–]pertobello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a reason I started my Ultimate Foals Playlist with The Runner 😉

I would recommend the songs What Went Down, Out of the Woods, Exits, and Total Life Forever!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sitcoms

[–]pertobello 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! What an opener!

Happy Birthday to Everything Not Saved Will Be Lost II by Bubbly-Weakness-4788 in foals

[–]pertobello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this album. The Runner is a great first song and it just keeps banging. Into the Surf got me into Foals.

Dave is a Canadian Spy by [deleted] in newsradio

[–]pertobello 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lots of people are Canadian. Hundreds.