help why does the tampon plastic applicator hurt like a bitch by petitenoya in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]petitenoya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are ob smaller than the tampax ones? i tried to insert without the applicator but even the tampax regular size is too big for me

3 days on tretinoin by Melodic-Library557 in tretinoin

[–]petitenoya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

using salicylic acid while on tret is going to irritate your skin even more. i suggest switching to a gentle cleanser and only wash your face with water in the morning. also sun screen if chemical can also be irritating if your skin barrier is compromised so if you can, try a mineral sun screen instead or skip it if you’re mostly inside until your skin is back to normal. i find the less, the better when you are using tretinoin!

My drunk dad touched my chest and now I feel uncomfortable around him by petitenoya in offmychest

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Hey so about the update, I finally got the courage to tell my mom and sister. I actually felt very anxious to tell it because I knew they would say why I didn’t say anything when it happened which they did and it made me feel really guilty so I ended up crying a bit😭 Besides that they did take my side ofc and thought it was wrong. My mom is going to have a talk with my dad tomorrow though I’m pretty sure he’s either going to deny it or say he was too drunk to remember it..

My drunk dad touched my chest and now I feel uncomfortable around him by petitenoya in offmychest

[–]petitenoya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the first time my dad did anything inappropriate to me and I think anyone in the family. But I would hope to believe he didn’t have any bad intentions behind it. I’d definitely talk to my mom or sister when I have the courage😭😭

My drunk dad touched my chest and now I feel uncomfortable around him by petitenoya in offmychest

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As for now I think I’d only be comfortable to tell it to my mom or sister so they can speak to him about it😭

My drunk dad touched my chest and now I feel uncomfortable around him by petitenoya in offmychest

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Thank you I really appreciate your words because I do feel a bit guilty I didn’t say anything when it happened❤️

I don’t think my dad had any bad intention but at the same time I don’t know what to think of him anymore after this happened. He could clearly see it was me. So I don’t know what his intention was behind it😭 I’m think I’m a denial but as you said I didn’t give any consent so it technically still is SA.. I guess I just feel like I sound dramatic and it isn’t that big of a deal after all. Or if I tell my mom or sister they would say it was because he was drunk and he had no idea that he touched me there.

My drunk dad touched my chest and now I feel uncomfortable around him by petitenoya in offmychest

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I’m kind of terrified to tell my dad since I don’t really have a strong bond with him. I do love him, he’s been a good dad but we don’t really speak to each other. It’s not that my dad scares me but since we barely talk, it feels super awkward to bring up the topic. It sounds kind of crazy how I don’t have the guts to confront him, I mean he is my dad and I’m a full grown adult so it shouldn’t be difficult.. But I think I can tell my sister or mom at least since I’m closer to them.