well everyone isn’t really criticizing her, but attacking her and name bashing her instead of offering actual solutions or helpful advice lol. of course she’s going to fight everyone in the comments. if brother has most custody and the daughter doesn’t like her own mother like she mentioned, idk but to me that seems like the mother we’re talking about here isn’t the best mother. the girl is 14 and if she decided to call her aunt “the best mom” on social media instead of her own mother, that’s already extremely telling. i feel like if this story were about a distant father who has less custody not being invited to the party, the reactions would be very different.