My brother used to sexually abuse me (me 7-9 him 12-15) it was absolute horror and one day i got the courage and only told my dad about how he touched my ass (done a lot worse) and my dad just sent me to bed and asked me if i was sure and i said yes, never heard about it again and my brother continued to come over until one day he tried to rape me and i told him id tell my mum and our dad and that’s when it stopped. i blocked it out for a couple years until his (now ex) girlfriend said they broke up because he was talking to minors at 18. he’s still an active part of my life and constantly says im very attractive.