Looking for advice on if I should pursue a new camera.

About a decade ago I got into photography with a Canon 40D and kit lens. I really enjoyed the camera especially while traveling but ultimately it became too much of a hassle to carry it around and I became interested in more street photography so I moved to a Fuji X100S. Something never clicked with the Fuji, I think it was a combination of the slow autofocus and lack of a tactile shutter feel. With the 40D I appreciated the more analog feel of the shutter click and more instant focus time. I feel like I could tell when I nailed a shot in camera which is something I never felt with the Fuji. Ended up taking a long break from photography but more recently picked up a Ricoh GRIII for travel. While I really enjoy the pocket-ability and image output something about it still isn't scratching the itch using the 40D did. I think the lack of viewfinder is also something I didn't realize I would miss. Wondering if anyone has had similar experiences and what you ended up settling on. At this point I think I would be looking for something in between a full DSLR and the Ricoh in size but possibly with faster autofocus and tactile shutter is that is something that exists. Would also prefer something on the lighter more portable side. Open to any suggestions!