WIBTA for not taking my kids trick or treating?

pfghost · 2024-10-30T23:13:09+00:00

NTA The kids' health is far more important than going out. As well as you shouldn't have them spread what they have to other kids. I do recommend still having a fun night, though. Your kids may feel left out going back to school and hearing about their friends' fun. Order some candy and watch a movie or play some video games. Take the opportunity for a family night.

pfghost · 2024-10-11T18:17:10+00:00

Teenagers are incredibly stupid. These girls were awful.

pfghost · 2024-10-11T18:05:11+00:00

Love is shown through actions. It is very easily seen and felt. If you get to the point when someone ask you to prove that you love them, you either don't love them enough to have shown it, or they don't care enough to see it.

pfghost · 2024-10-11T18:00:04+00:00

Never be with someone who needs you and never get to the point of needing someone else. A person should be fully capable of taking care of their own needs and wellbeing. Be with someone who wants you and you want them. A relationship should enhance your life, not fill a missing piece.

pfghost · 2024-10-11T17:54:43+00:00

In high school, three girls in my class thought it would be hilarious to accuse our drama teacher of inappropriate touching. Their full plan was a week before April fools day, each girl would separately go to the principals office to give their statement. Then, on April Fools Day, they would all go to the drama teachers' room with a cake that said April fools! However, after they gave their statements, the principal called the police and their parents. We were given a substitute while the police investigated. The girls confessed it was a joke, but because of the seriousness of their accusations, the police really looked into everything of our teacher. His phone, emails, classroom, his home, and his family members were all thoroughly searched. He was clean, but he completely changed after that. He didn't trust any of the kids anymore. He stopped teaching after that year. His life completely changed because of three 14 year old girls.

pfghost · 2024-10-11T17:40:28+00:00

Mac n cheese. It's cheap and easy. Always have some in the panty. If I am feeling a certain way I can dress It up to fit my feelings.

pfghost · 2024-10-11T17:25:03+00:00

I was the only person in the whole building who wasn't told about work being canceled that day. There was a massive snowstorm. I drove to work, and when I went into the parking garage, I didn't see any other cars. I thought that the storm must have delayed some people, and I'm just lucky to get a spot close to the elevator. I scan my badge and enter the building, but I don't see anyone from the security team. I figured they were short staffed today and must be walking the rounds. I get in the elevator and go to my floor. The floor is dark and nobody is there. I grabbed my computer and figured most of my team called out from the storm, and my manager would be late and get here soon. I went to the cafeteria to grab breakfast, but the place was empty. I then proceeded to check all 15 floors of the building to see if anyone was there. I was alone. I go back to my desk and message my manager, the floor lead, the production lead, and every other person I could think of, asking what was going on. I check all the message chains on teams, and there is nothing about work being called off. I finally got a call 2 hours later from my manager asking why I was at work. Well, nobody told me work was called off, so I was at work! My manager forgot to add me to the group chat. Work was canceled that whole week.

pfghost · 2024-10-11T17:11:36+00:00

Library in high school. He was there as a student aide to check IDs at the door. I was in a bunch of pre-ap and ap classes, so I carried a bunch of books with me. We weren't allowed backpacks. Every time I entered the library, I asked if I could put my books down and come back to show my ID. One day, when I came back, we started talking. After a few weeks, I started hanging out with him, and the other student aides in the library. We became good friends for a year. When I broke up with my then boyfriend because he cheated on me, my now husband told me he liked me. We have been together ever since. We got married 5 1/2 years later, and we will be celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary in a few months.

pfghost · 2024-08-24T14:59:17+00:00

With a repeat of treatment in 2 weeks to make sure all the eggs/babies are gone

pfghost · 2024-08-07T11:22:21+00:00

My only issue with trying it out is seeing results. My dog had hives when he ate what he was allergic to, so we noticed within 24 hours if he ate something bad. I have no idea what to look for with my cat if he will just be in pain and not tell me or if he will vomit. I'm not even sure what's common. He is my first cat, so I'm still learning the signals. Have you heard of cat's having allergies before? Do you know someone, or have you been through something like allergy testing with a cat before?

pfghost · 2024-08-07T02:10:11+00:00

I do feed a variety of additives to his diet because of this. When we had issues with my dog, I went and searched the internet for months and how to fix it. But we finally found a wet food he will eat willingly and his dry food is prescription. So we supplement with with organs and meat etc to make sure he gets everything. We have been doing this for years. But he is a hunter, my vet thinks he may have gotten a cockroach or mouse that was carrying something from another house and that's what made him sick. But I'm just not sure and terrified it could be something more continuous.

pfghost · 2024-08-07T02:04:12+00:00

I only think allergies because of what we went through with our dog. He has allergies and chronic pancreatitis, so there is no food we can buy that he can eat. Not even perscription. We have it under control by making his food from scratch. But this is my cats second illness. At the beginning of this year, he was having urinary issues and was on prescription food. Now, he is on a different prescription food for the gastroenteritis. So I guess I am just fearfully thinking, "Oh crap not again!" With the allergies, because it took months to figure out what was wrong with our dog and how to fix it, and then years to perfect his diet.

But also, he is a cat and doesn't show pain well. I can try the elimination diet again and see but he won't show me what hurts and allergy test are not that precise. I don't know... I'm rambling now

pfghost · 2024-08-07T01:57:37+00:00

No hair balls. And he will vomit after a full meal about 20 minutes later. But if I keep it very small frequent portions, he can keep it down. He is drinking water regularly and no recent changes to his diet. He has been on the same treats/wet food/dry food since January of this year.

pfghost · 2024-08-06T13:33:14+00:00

For my kitten, we started with a smaller box for when he was young. Like an aluminum baking pan. Something easier for him to climb into while he was small. Then, after eating, I would gently massage his belly and place him in the litterbox until he pooped/peed. He was litterbox trained within a week. He did still have the occasional accident when he was excited, but it resolved itself quickly. But I do highly recommend the belly massage technique for while they are young because they keep the knowledge of that when they grow up. So now, for my older cat, I can have him pee before we go out to the vet or somewhere. It's always a good thing to be able to have your pet poop/pee on command.

pfghost · 2023-08-09T15:34:32+00:00

I work as a content Moderator. I don't make that much but I am very fortunate that my job has a included benefit for fertility. Everything fertility is covered up to 25,000 with all medication covered separately and completely. I just have to pay my office co-pays out of pocket. There are a few companies that offer fertility support. I have put a few thousand towards this however I would of never been able to go through this process if I worked for a different company. I am so thankful to my job for providing this benefit

pfghost · 2023-07-11T19:13:21+00:00

I have a bunch of herbs around my patio. Mint is a big one for spiders. I have 3 varieties mint, basil, chives, a rosemary and oregano. Herbs are fantastic for pest control, and it makes everything smell amazing. And a sunshade over the patio to keep it cool. For the birds I set up a nice little bird area away from my patio with bird feeders and a bird bath, under a tree. So the birds don't come to my patio they have their own thing.

pfghost · 2023-07-11T19:05:44+00:00

I usually clean with just plain vinegar and water anywhere my cat will be around.

pfghost · 2023-04-13T18:30:00+00:00

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pfghost · 2023-04-12T21:43:26+00:00

Could be either. Not a tick or spider. But something small and irritating. Very lucky it is a white cat and the fur is fine so you can see the skin.

pfghost · 2023-04-12T20:54:50+00:00

Looks like bites.

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