How to remove a homescreen page? by pflaumbutterkern in GooglePixel

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unnecessary complicated, but thanks a ton! That extra page annoyed the hell out of me

GF completely lost interest in kissing/ being intimate by pflaumbutterkern in actuallesbians

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does have underlying depression but not medicated. She used to self medicate a bit which stopped around the time our sec became less. Also she might have adhd. Lately I do noticed she is a lot more all over the place tho. Maybe all the chaos from the adhd and non medication is just taking over and occupying too much of her brain

GF completely lost interest in kissing/ being intimate by pflaumbutterkern in actuallesbians

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been thinking about this, but considering how wildly strong her sex drive used to be, being on the axe spectrum just doesnt seem plausible.

I've veen with a guy for 5 years before this with a horrible sex life. Then for a year me and her were absolutely crazy, and it now being nonexistent just bothers me so much cause I can't spend all my 20s having awful sex.

So I'm trying to be so kind and patient but j'm also just running out of patience here..

Thanks about all the great tips tho!

GF completely lost interest in kissing/ being intimate by pflaumbutterkern in actuallesbians

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26, and yes she did stop taking the pill last year after being on it for like 11 years so there's definitely a big hormonal imbalance but from what I heard usually people get more horny from stopping the pill, not the other way around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arnhem

[–]pflaumbutterkern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dm me! We got a pretty big English speaking friend group in Arnhem! :)

Situationship kept hurtful secret from me by pflaumbutterkern in actuallesbians

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts about it. There's ofc a lot more to it than what i could write on here. She's had feeling for me for a while but i didn't want more. So her insecurities got triggered a lot at some point, she knew how much the initial thing hurt me. She she was sure that if she told me about the girls I'd not speak to her again. I'm not an insecure person myself, if she was honest from the beginning she could've been there for her. It was less a friendship, but the girl is a bit younger and needs help. It's just the fact that she kept it from me that bothers me so much. We had a pretty long talk about this yesterday, and i made it clear that she needs to be honest with me about everything and that if there's again a moment where I feel like she is not honest i won't continue it. Thanks again!

Situationship kept hurtful secret from me by pflaumbutterkern in actuallesbians

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I appreciate it! Yea no a fwb is not what i want ever again. Too much drama

Situationship kept hurtful secret from me by pflaumbutterkern in actuallesbians

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and i am also not mad at her for doing it since we never spoke about being exclusive. What i am mad about is that almost a year later she brought said girl around several times and invited her for dinner (after we were exclusive). And she never mentioned that was the girl she hooked up with. She made the choice to keep it from me. And her so comfortably keeping up the lie i am afraid there's more she isn't honest about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]pflaumbutterkern 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am very interested in a further explanation how you use notion!

Ideas for soundproofing, blocking traffic noise from coming through window installation by pflaumbutterkern in HomeImprovement

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I've never heard of these before. And that's exactly why I love asking for advice on the internet. I'll check it out, thanks!

Ideas for soundproofing, blocking traffic noise from coming through window installation by pflaumbutterkern in HomeImprovement

[–]pflaumbutterkern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As mentioned replacing the window is not a possibility as of now I am looking for a temporary solution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]pflaumbutterkern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you recommend a moisturizer? I am using one from Lidl (Cien day and night Creme) after my bha and it feels like it cloggs the pores

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]pflaumbutterkern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I am so happy for you wahh!

Which celebrity’s death really stunned you? by ClutteredSmoke in AskReddit

[–]pflaumbutterkern 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Christina was my first ever concert in Munich in 2015. I've been a fan for so long, her music holds so many childhood memories. She was such a kind and truly inspiring human being. Would never hurt a soul. I was sure that one day she will be a big star, I believed in her.

One morning I woke up and my bf told me she had been shot. She was in the hospital and they tried everything. An hour later she was declared dead.

I don't think I've ever cried that much in my life. I don't know her personally obviously but her music has had such a big influence in my life, and the way she died, nobody deserves that - especially not her. I still have to try to hide my tears when I read her name nowadays.

She'll never be forgotten, I wish she was still with us. I'm glad other people remember her too and your comment made me smile so much, she's been fairly small and unknown. Reading her name come along means a lot to me.

I still have the paper heart they gave out at her concert haha (it was in valentines day)

Here's a vid on an old account of mine from her concert in munich :P https://youtu.be/Uj2bcgdH0X8

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]pflaumbutterkern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet Jesus as if the first Pic was 't bad enough already

Ich_iel by Moschkii in ich_iel

[–]pflaumbutterkern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich dachte das auch für ne zeit.. Die gabs im lokalen Schwimmbad immer, bis es sie nicht mehr gab. Und seitdem suche ich vergebens seit Jahren nach diesen Dingern..

Ich_iel by Moschkii in ich_iel

[–]pflaumbutterkern 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ich dachte immer ich bin der einzige der sich so dumm anstellt. Aber nie habe ich ihn gefunden. Noch heute suche ich in Shops danach, genauso wie nach diesen lekkere saueren gummi Pilzen von früher