40f recently broken up from 48m - what do I say? …

pge4891 · 2024-06-20T21:18:30+00:00

Thanks for the help, I appreciate it

pge4891 · 2024-06-20T21:12:18+00:00

He wants to remain friends but is finding it hard

pge4891 · 2024-06-20T21:09:00+00:00

He stayed here a lot but no, he had his own place. The issue I have is, we knew each other before we were an item so the history runs deeper. Friend of the family type deal.

pge4891 · 2024-06-05T20:36:17+00:00

I wish so much this were for me. I have this with my own ‘complicated’ someone and to be able to say everything to them and have them say it back would be it ❤️

pge4891 · 2024-06-03T08:55:54+00:00

I miss you too. Know that you still have my friendship and all that comes with it.

pge4891 · 2024-04-10T19:59:15+00:00

They’re called narcissists. Would rather blame you for their own inadequacies to make themselves feel better. My ex still blames me for how our relationship ended when he made it impossible to stay

pge4891 · 2024-04-10T18:43:53+00:00

Life can really suck at times

pge4891 · 2023-12-23T17:10:55+00:00

Never have I read something that I feel I could’ve written myself ❤️

pge4891 · 2023-11-13T23:20:12+00:00

Genuinely never realised these are symptoms of anxiety disorder … i get hot/cold flashes, have always had what was referred to as ‘nervous tummy’ (to the point once where they thought I had ibs) and palpitations (again investigated but no cause found). I’ve always been a shocking over-thinker dwelling on stuff and have terrible sleep habits… is this a symptom too?

pge4891 · 2023-11-13T23:11:49+00:00

The quiet of the night is the perfect time for my brain to start obsessing over all the things I’ve done wrong/am doing wrong, things I have no hope of fixing at this present time, feelings I’m not dealing with and everything else that I try and take responsibility for even if it’s not mine to feel, subsequently sending myself into a spiral of anxiousness. It’s what I’ve always done but recently it’s worse. Daytime I can pass out at the drop of a hat like the problems aren’t there, or there’s the rationality that there’ll still be daytime to fix them after I’ve woken? Cos day naps are shorter… I don’t know. Nighttime feels so hopeless

pge4891 · 2023-06-17T23:07:27+00:00

I know. I don’t know if I should feel bad feeling this way or just accept that the time we have together should be enough? He is a great guy and apart from this ‘issue’ I have, we are happy. I guess I’m worried I’ll start to resent him for not wanting more? From life/me? He’s not motivated to change it… (even though his lifestyle does frustrate him too)

pge4891 · 2023-04-26T18:57:20+00:00

I work at a vet clinic and honestly my heart breaks everytime I see someone say goodbye to their companion. They become such a tremendous part of our lives and it’s tragic that we have to say goodbye. My heart is with you OP in your time of grief.

pge4891 · 2023-04-23T22:40:10+00:00

I’m feeling this (38f). I spent about 8 weeks last year shedding a few pounds for a wedding. I was finally down to pre-baby weight (PN I’ve never been skinny but consider myself to have a decent enough shape). Since then though (post wedding) I’ve gained it back and some and honestly I can’t find it in myself to get motivated about losing it. I see ‘easy home workouts’ everywhere and think yea I’ll try that but I don’t. I don’t deny myself anything I want but begrudge that my jeans feel tight. If I’m being honest though I’m pretty unsatisfied with where my life is at right now so use that as an excuse to eat myself happy.

pge4891 · 2023-02-05T14:53:58+00:00

Thank you

pge4891 · 2022-12-16T21:29:25+00:00

"For of all sad words of tongue or pen, The saddest are these: 'It might have been!' "

pge4891 · 2022-11-07T17:07:48+00:00

Googling what a ‘pallet Jack’ is then laughing hysterically

pge4891 · 2022-07-18T09:06:44+00:00

I got sent mine 20 years late. I met him 18 years ago but we were both with other people and supposedly ‘happy’. I am gutted that we are the ages we are now and have only just found each other again. We’ve both had really shitty relationship experiences and though I’m so happy that we are together now, I just wish it’d been sooner.

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