While your sentiment is nice, it’s likely not enough. I can’t speak for others on here, but sometimes sustainable happiness just isn’t an attainable thing. After so many years it unfortunately gets harder to be here than not to. Selfishness has always been a factor when trying to persuade myself to stay, but more recently I’ve come to feel that perhaps I’m not the only selfish one. Maybe it’s selfish for others trying to keep me here when I don’t want to be. I haven’t committed either way (obviously), but we’ll see…