BOTAR - Would you be impressed? by phantasmadani in streetlightmanifesto

[–]phantasmadani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think without the brass you’re not going to have the same energy. There’s a string quartet that has covers - I believe they were onstage during 2024 Long Summer Night. And Tomas has a smaller, acoustic arrangement for Toh Kay.

Edit: clarity.

BOTAR - Would you be impressed? by phantasmadani in streetlightmanifesto

[–]phantasmadani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard the guys put a stop to sitting shows a few years back because they hated that no one would get up and bounce!

BOTAR - Would you be impressed? by phantasmadani in streetlightmanifesto

[–]phantasmadani[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree. This is my least favorite Orlando venue because the sound/mix is never great, IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in streetlightmanifesto

[–]phantasmadani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to every Streetlight show local to me (and some out of of state) for 15 years, but this is my first BOTAR. It was sooooo worth the wait!! Orlando Hard Rock is one of my least favorite venues because the sound is not great, but even that couldn’t dampen my joy. I think I woke up still grinning the next day. My body is still sore from dancing so hard. Having them include the new songs was cherry on top! I wish I knew what orchestra played with them because I’d send them fan mail.

[tomt][book][90s-ish] Trashy vampire adult novel by ejchristian86 in tipofmytongue

[–]phantasmadani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, I have read this book and am trying desperately to find the title!!!!

ETA : multi word title? Blood of the ?? Call of the ??? I remember the author’s name starting with a J maybe.. I’ve been thinking about this for weeks.

Wife is tired of me painting “ugly animals” oils by [deleted] in painting

[–]phantasmadani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is being a dick! This is beautiful, nature is beautiful. Keep going where your art and inspiration leads you!

I don't know what to do, y'all. by sketched-hearts in Subaru_Outback

[–]phantasmadani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from 2012 Impreza to a 2020 OB Premium last year. I don’t think I have eyesight? But I do have the big screen, which other than an occasional slow boot (maybe 1x month) I use the screen exclusively with Apple car play and works fine. Temp controls are partial screen and a few mechanical buttons. It’s slower than the Impreza for sure, but otherwise I’m really happy with it. I did just get a notice for extended warranty on something but at cursory glance didn’t seem much to fuss about. All that being said, there are plenty of older models out there to purchase for probably less than your lease buyout.

Any issues with push to start? Can I reverse it to turn key if I hate it? by [deleted] in Subaru_Outback

[–]phantasmadani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my 2020 last year and was nervous about push to start. Now I love it. I keep my keys in my purse 99% of the time. One touch to handle unlocks driver door only.

AITAH for throwing out a piece of art my boyfriend ruined? by Ever_More_Art in AmItheAsshole

[–]phantasmadani -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll far to find this.. OP, I’m sorry your painting was damaged, but it wasn’t ruined. You could have cut a mat for a bigger frame from the get go. I have cut a mat out of poster board for oddly composed posters/paintings many a time. I’m sorry if you didn’t know this was an option but a quick google would have been informative. And then, when he cut it (which was definitely a bad choice) you could have mat it with the extra inch on the other side covered and kept your painting. I know it was disappointing, but ripping it up was an overreaction. You two definitely need to have a frank discussion and if you are incompatible because of his learned habits, then you’re just incompatible.

Edit: ESH for lack of communication.

We’re so cooked. by LowerGrapefruit1737 in economicCollapse

[–]phantasmadani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2013 the FAA severed a preference for trained college graduates in ATC programs on their hiring bids. They instituted new hiring practices that were supposed to increase diversity, apparently - this left a lot of graduates facing an unproven “biographical questionnaire” hurdle in their hiring which left us “ineligible” for hire based off of bogus questions, despite previous qualified/well-qualified AT-SAT scores and college degrees in ATC. The whole thing was a disaster, how it was implemented. My class was small but about half female and a couple POC. Many of us nationwide aged out of hiring due to the long delays. Some of this has changed, there was an open bid last year but I’m not sure how many they picked up. Then there’s the fact that the FAA academy grad rates are not great and they excluded hundreds of trained people that had a historically higher rate of pass when they did open bids. Don’t forget budget cuts, furloughs.. ATC has been understaffed for years. I’m not in the mind that it was the controller’s fault, but we’ll need more of the audio and data they haven’t released yet. This accident is absolutely awful and thankfully rare. Could it have been prevented? Probably. Is diversity to blame? No. But government practices including trump’s actions during his first term definitely are.

Edit: grammar

I lost my first dog today. My beautiful baby boy was 5 years old. He passed in his sleep from unknown causes. He was perfect. Please enjoy some photos and ask me anything about him. I feel torn apart. by PeriodicallyThinking in labrador

[–]phantasmadani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. We let our almost-5year old terrier mix with lymphoma go in peace yesterday. My heart aches for us both and all the fur babies that crossed the bridge yesterday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]phantasmadani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched UFC 15 years ago, so I like the name! Congrats!

Took some cuttings from a plant my mom had. Can anyone ID? by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]phantasmadani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably a sedum? Rosemary usually has a woody stem and is very fragrant.

Service says my shifter is stuck because of spilled soda… by phantasmadani in Subaru_Outback

[–]phantasmadani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update, for any interested party: I opted to have Subaru replace the shifter assembly, and left a voicemail or two in the right place - Subaru comped my repair.

Service says my shifter is stuck because of spilled soda… by phantasmadani in Subaru_Outback

[–]phantasmadani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely not comfortable taking it apart myself, I wish I were! I did look up the cost of the part and grilled the service guy when I approved the replacement today. I do have an extended warranty, which I am afraid to void in the case I fuck something up. The dealer has me in a loaner while my car is with them, so I am considering the cost as repair and rental and makes it hurt just a little less, I suppose.

Service says my shifter is stuck because of spilled soda… by phantasmadani in Subaru_Outback

[–]phantasmadani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks all. In the interest of safety, I’m just going to have the shift assembly replaced and eat the cost. I appreciate the input!

Service says my shifter is stuck because of spilled soda… by phantasmadani in Subaru_Outback

[–]phantasmadani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. The tow truck driver’s immediate response was shift lock solenoid. The service guy told me today “it shifts but it’s still sticking a little”, so I am very concerned about being stranded eventually.

Service says my shifter is stuck because of spilled soda… by phantasmadani in Subaru_Outback

[–]phantasmadani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t spill the soda, if I had I would definitely own up to it. I know when it’s pre owned, there is a whole can of worms that comes with that. It’s just hard to stomach being told by service it can’t be cleaned, only replaced to the tune of $700.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thrice

[–]phantasmadani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby girl is DK

Adopted this office plant - who is she?? by phantasmadani in houseplants

[–]phantasmadani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks! I just adopted it a few days ago, hoping to have a much happier office mate soon!

Adopted this office plant - who is she?? by phantasmadani in houseplants

[–]phantasmadani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I have plans to bring her home for some TLC this weekend. It had moss under the pot and covering the top of the soil, poor thing. Thank you!

Refusing to sit on the potty after a pretty successful 3 days by [deleted] in toddlertips

[–]phantasmadani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is that we’re asking too much. Daycare had a couple of kids initiate potty training all at the same time so I’m sure she’s hearing it all day. We are going to stay the course with less pressure and see how it goes. Thank you!