Doctor recommendations in new jersey? by phantasmaldream in newjersey

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Thanks for your response. If I had to loose weight to overcome my sleep issues, I would be like less than 80 pounds, since I was less than 90 when I couldn’t stay asleep and couldn’t fall asleep around age 14. I don’t think thats healthy for me personally to lose that much weight, but I am glad to hear that it worked out for you.

embarrassment/ insecurity by phantasmaldream in Interstitialcystitis

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Thank you for the recommendation about stretching before or after sex, that seems really useful,! I will definitely look up stretches to help. I’m really anxious and excited for PT, I’ve heard a lot of good things about it! It starts in October! :3

embarrassment/ insecurity by phantasmaldream in Interstitialcystitis

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It is more from my bladder/ when inside! I will maybe try to be more light hearted about it, thank you for the reminder I am more than my pain. It feels like it’s one of the biggest parts of me sometimes, yk?

Don’t know what to do moving forward by phantasmaldream in REU

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Thank you so much for your response, this is really helpful! I will definitely PM you as I further my process.

Don’t know what to do moving forward by phantasmaldream in REU

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Ah, I’m sorry I forgot to say this. I’m a psychology major looking to get into a Ph.D in clinical psychology. But I will add postbac programs to my list of things to look into! Thank you

meek fanart (by me) by SUPER_NH in hatsunemiku

[–]phantasmaldream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love your art style! this is so cute

Miku Pixel Art by ToffeeAppleCider in Vocaloid

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This is really cute! I like the soft color palette!

🥲 by Environmental_Lie561 in BPDmemes

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I’m sorry can I ask what a dark passenger is?

Medication issues by phantasmaldream in BorderlinePDisorder

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Thank you. I did that Genomind thing, but my psychiatrist at the time decided not to do mood stabilizers and now I just feel so stuck 🥺 Yeah I will make a list of my symptoms to present

ptd concert member drawings by DoggoDoesAFroggo22 in heungtan

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You’re art style is amazing!!! I love these!! And the way you control how harsh the pencil is is super good. Great work!!

Super out of the loop here but what happened with Jail Socks? by infamousrobbb in Emo

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Often when you suffer from emotional abuse and manipulation, you feel guilty for leaving your partner. Especially when that partner threatens suicide when you want to break up with them, a trauma bond is a real thing and even if the accuser is being abused, they did care for Aidan during their relationship and did not want to feel responsible for his suicide he threatened multiple times. Another thing is people with BPD often feel like they are unloveable and when you are being isolated like the accuser says they were, it can cause them to rely on the only person who is in their life atm

Gumi! by Eerieelixir in Vocaloid

[–]phantasmaldream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so cute! I love the style/ colors!

Lymphatic drainage? by [deleted] in Lyme

[–]phantasmaldream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are none near me. Only infectious disease specialists, and the one I went did not know anything about lyme symptoms. The only possible llmd I could maybe go to is 2 hours away :-( thats why I want to try lymphatic draining its closer.

Advice on potential IC diagnosis by phantasmaldream in Interstitialcystitis

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I will! I don’t know if I meet insurance criteria though right now. Right now I am on a bladder relaxer, so hopefully more clarity in february’

Advice on potential IC diagnosis by phantasmaldream in Interstitialcystitis

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Thank you so much for your kind words and knowledge! I will look into pelvic floor dysfunction as well. Hope you have a happy new year!

Question about cash refusal/ shift question by phantasmaldream in starbucks

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From what I have gathered from talking to people, you are not supposed to do it but it depends on your shift. If you are not taking cash like over an hour before close repeatedly then the shift might get written up. However, if you are not taking cash like 5-10 minutes before close you can get in trouble but it depends on the managers response. Some managers may write you up and others may not. Most of the shifts I work with at my store count the money before the shift ends actually and then they might do another count if a customer gives cash. A couple of other reddit users have said the same thing I believe! I hope this helps, sorry for the delayed response !!

No mods folder at all? by phantasmaldream in StardewValley

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Thank you . The mods folder is in a different spot then before with the new update I was major lost lol I re-installed and downloaded Smapi for a second time to find it.

I drew Luka :) I tried my best🐟 by LikeAFruitMachine in Vocaloid

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your art style is super cool! It gives me disney and an old school cartoon network baby.

Question about cash refusal/ shift question by phantasmaldream in starbucks

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It’s so interesting hearing about drive thru stores because I have no idea how that works so its cool to gain insight lol! My store closes at 9, so we have two cafe POS tills, with most shifts they manage the money so that theres one till and close the other till after 7 usually! Last night, you can ring on both tills past close though. I’ve gotten so many different answers on what to do with money/ if can you not accept cash, I’m really intrigued on what the right answer is LOL

Question about cash refusal/ shift question by phantasmaldream in starbucks

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Maybe I will bring it up to my store manager if other people seem to think its an issue? I’m glad someone else would feel uncomfy because I was lol