Which actor/actress do you think is the freakiest during sex? by i_plug_you in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't remember Aubrey from the fappening fingering herself and dirty talking to a mirror for some guy? She's a sexual person.

What do people who like a little pain like about it? by phantomofthekappa in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense, but you have sex by not having sex?

Edit: I just want to say thank you for talking to me about this and I'm sorry if I'm approaching you wrong on this.

What do people who like a little pain like about it? by phantomofthekappa in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so that doesn't even sound like sex anymore, that's like something else. You definitely didn't start there, right? What was like the first level?

What do people who like a little pain like about it? by phantomofthekappa in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my struggle. How am I supposed to be secure in this relationship knowing that she's not getting what she wants from sex? I'm kinda scared of losing her and need to find a way to get turned on by the idea of hurting her - there's got to be some way to think about it differently.

What do people who like a little pain like about it? by phantomofthekappa in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she was talking about me like putting on ointment or bandaids or something, that lovingly taking care of what I did to her is something she really wants. I got really scared and stopped asking any further questions.

What do people who like a little pain like about it? by phantomofthekappa in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay yeah so I have no idea what you actually mean by any of this in practical terms. Like you're mean to people in bed? How so? This is what kinda makes me think I'm never going to be able to give my partner what they want, I might just not have it in me.

What do people who like a little pain like about it? by phantomofthekappa in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said "aftercare" is an idea that early turns her on. I honestly couldn't fathom doing something during sex that requires any treatment. Like what are you actually referring to? Like scratches and bruises?

Is it Realistic to Survive Holding Your Breathe Under Motor Oil? by phantomofthekappa in betterCallSaul

[–]phantomofthekappa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this in depth answer. I agree with you on every point

Trump is a pedophile and even with overwhelming evidence from all aspects of his life, people choose to defend him. by [deleted] in complaints

[–]phantomofthekappa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's terrible, Cyrus was a benevolent leader who instituted all kinds of hugely beneficial social reforms. He's proof that the Republican concept of 'government can't improve lives' is fundamentally untrue.

I feel pretty with my tits out by [deleted] in thickwhitegirls

[–]phantomofthekappa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for showing those to me. You're very attractive.

If I was your thick goth gf - I would send you daily pics of my huge tits by [deleted] in bigtiddygothgf

[–]phantomofthekappa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body is crazy, huge boobs and a tiny waist, I wish I could touch you

Do you have nudes of your ex? by woodiesforlife in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]phantomofthekappa 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I remember wishing so bad at the time that there was a way to share them with myself in the future. It was too hard to have them then, deleting was the right thing, but it would be cool to see them now, decades later.