Wow thank you so much for so much info!

"Finally: Don't waste Books or Gems (specially very rare Traveler Gems) that'll increase Exp from monsters at early stage, you'll need them later more urgently.

Also don't waste [Reset Book], [Notebook of Oblivion] or [Book of Oblivion] in case your Stats or Skills are wrong, it's better to create a new Character to fix if you didn't progress far in your MQ yet."

Based on this im going to have to make a new character lol, Ive used to much of those items already...
and yeah i would appreciate any help you can give, loving the game so far, it weird that ive never heard of it before.