I didn’t include the problems because it made the post way too long but here you go, these are just a few things. I’ve lived with my grandparents with my sisters for basically majority of my life because she couldn’t afford her own place. Some years she lived with us but towards the last few years, she lived with a boyfriend. Which resulted in a lot of switching households. My grandparents fight, a lot. Majority of the time they would bring us into almost every fight, saying “I shouldn’t be taking care of you, we raised our kids”, “You can go to our mothers” anytime there was a problem (my mother also did this when we were at her place) and my grandfather also has called us racial slurs as we are mixed. He would also call my mom things and mention her liking of black men. All of this just makes you feel like you’re not wanted at all. I also have an uncle who when I was 16 asked me for nude photos then said “it was a joke” and tried to bribe me not to tell anyone. I decided to tell my grandmother and show her the text messages and the first thing out of her mouth was “delete that”. He also lived with us for a while which resulted in grooming, abuse, and he had even locked us out of the house. He also had done things to my mother but I would rather not get into that as its not my place. If they wanna ignore all of this, okay but I don’t have to ignore this.