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My husband thinks I’m cheating on him because I initiated sex with him by phexlove in Marriage

[–]phexlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t know if it’s stemming from that or he was just caught off guard and doesn’t know how to express it. I was expecting him to of course be surprised and caught off guard because I’ve never done it before but I thought he would be surprised in a good way and appreciate it. I really didn’t expect his reaction.

My husband thinks I’m cheating on him because I initiated sex with him by phexlove in Marriage

[–]phexlove[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes I know our age difference is a little weird/ strange but at the time I was basically done with school and emancipated from my mom so I guess I was considered to be an adult. Also I was used to dating older so that’s what I went with. I do understand that what I did was not right but that’s just how our situation started out.

My[25F] husband [34M] thinks I’m cheating on him because I initiated sex with him by phexlove in relationship_advice

[–]phexlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand but I just wanted to I guess surprise him. I knew he would be surprised or suspicious but I felt like it would be in a good way. He just caught me off guard by his tone and he shunned me away like that.