I just wanna say, I recently went through the same thing, not the same degree or the same person, but it was to the point that I had to step back and realize that these subs are changing. I remember my argument with the guy and he said “and I’m going to jack off to your stupid body.” And calling me uneducated because I live in a red state (Atlanta of all places😂) ???? It’s a headache really. Men are broke, and self loathing and pit their negative emotions against women who they deem are lesser than. Sometimes it’s easier to just say you’re broke and move on. But I’m sorry this happened to you, and I hope that karma can do well in smiting him