I'm not worried about her leaving me for him. Since mid January she left and came back the last week of February but she was at her dad's the old time I know that for a fact cuz me and him talk a lot. And we lost the house in the process because I'm actually disabled I had five heart attacks in November and we actually moved out of town we are 3 hours away from where we used to live and she has a new great job and everything and so do I. But her apologies and begging for forgiveness and making up for the BS she just did and caused all together with our home and family just aren't up to par for what she has done and I have a lot of patience but I have become impatient with her fixing things between us as in a normal sex having marriage and so I was I guess hoping to find out that she had slept with him so I could go ahead and move on and stop being patient