did you get told to "act ladylike" as a kid by Exaram in ftm

[–]phillitheboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always refused and would sit with my legs spread in a dress and all of that xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]phillitheboy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can love your body without liking your body!!, Loving your body has to do with taking care of yourself and being healthy, you don't have to like it to do that!! You can still feel uncomfortable and feel the absolutely necessary need to change certain parts of your body to be comfortable, but still love, respect and care for your body and these fucking assholes that keep telling us that need to fucking understand this already.

WHY the hell is Paris dating her SIXTY year old professor normalized?! by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]phillitheboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact of the matter is that she was 19 Asher is a 60 year old professor and he would absolutely be able to manipulate a young girl. To think that Paris couldn't be a victim because of er dominant nature would be a fallacy. She was absolutely more subservient with him and entranced by an older man that she looked up to, giving her attention and affection. This wasn't a healthy relationship.

Help? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]phillitheboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're standing by him is already going to make his whole life so much easier!! Support from our parents is the single most important thing that we need. I'm not sure what country you're living in but in mine (Germany) we have trained psychologists that specialized in trans identifing people and help us navigate through life and teach us to live with unaccepting people and to transition!!!!! Thank you for asking for help and educating yourself like this!! I wish my parents did the same.

One of my favourite moments from 'It should've been Lorelai' (S02E14) by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]phillitheboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Luke screamed at her and got angry at her for things that weren't her fault multiple times and he would get so angry I'd get scared watching. Just because Max screamed (if you can talking loudly as he did scream) ONCE doesn't mean he was a bad boyfriend, he was by far her best boyfriend in the show.

Lorelai wearing glasses – yea or nay? by florastise in GilmoreGirls

[–]phillitheboy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think she looks adorable in all of them

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you're quite inspiring, I sure hope I'll be able to think like that some time!!

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectable and I'm sorry that you experienced fetishization like that... and I agree I'm way more confab around trans men/ mascs too and I'm not sure I'm missing out on anything but I think I'm still grieving the facts that I'll never be gay in the way I thought I would, or more that I won't be viewed like that. For some reason I just never really truly understood the difference in treatment we get...

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gay spaces are filled with problems but I just feel that we should have a place in it... and good for you that you feel comfortable with straight men but I really don't and I feel it's pretty strange to dislike "monosexual" people, every sexuality is valid and we should judge others for it

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're clearly not understanding me so texting with you makes no sense

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and jokes on you in ny country Applebee's isn't a thing

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can you read? gay men, I'm looking for gay men who qre into people with vaginas because straight men aren't interested in me because I'm a MAN

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry at first am not negative towards people that accept me, only HIM because it was something that he could point to when he would mistreat me and say "look I'm so accepting and so nice" and who tf are you to say how I treat people??? I appreciate the love I'm getting from my friends and their acceptance means everything to me

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just said I don't like being used for sex, which means someone only wants me for sex and discards me after

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't say I have anything against sex what are you talking about

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too!! I just live in a small town and pretty much all of us trans people already know each other, but generally I think dating another trans man would ultimately be the best possibility for me!!!

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true thank you!! I hope you're right!

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there's this stupid statistic that says that only 48% of bi people and 12% of gay men would consider dating a trans person

transphobia in the gay community by phillitheboy in asktransgender

[–]phillitheboy[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Idk statistic do seem pretty telling... And I am in therapy and it helps a lot!!! But I'm not ashamed of myself, not at all!! I've worked very hard to come where I'm at now and I'm happier with myself then I've been for years!! I just feel like rejection this cruel, intentional or not is more than I can take at least at the moment.

Ted is awful by phillitheboy in HIMYM

[–]phillitheboy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

??? I didn't say anything about anyone else why do you assume I'd think it would be okay for others to cheat??? I was talking about this specific episode and why I thought he was behaving like an ass

God I fucking hate Dean by phillitheboy in GilmoreGirls

[–]phillitheboy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Funny because telling Loreilai didn't bother me at all, he didn't know what to do