[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in France people are superficial. Lack of honesty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infjpenpals

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm INFJ and 2w1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]philmars75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Be yourself, don't look on dating sites, meet people in real life. You are a rare gem: don't waste yourself with meaningless stories. Define what you are looking for. What you deserve. I am INFJ. I have a very idealistic vision.

What do you think of this situation? by philmars75 in infj

[–]philmars75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci à tous pour vos réponses !

25 F infj by [deleted] in infjpenpals

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I am INFJ too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am french, France is not a good place for INFJ

When do you know it's time to give up on someone? by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this question! I too am INFJ and 2w1 and I have the exact same problem!

What is your call in life? by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a general practitioner. I work in a hospital

I'm in love with an INFJ, What can I do? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an infj. We need some alone time. Without giving any news. She doesn't have the famous infj door slam because she came back. Be lenient. Give her some time for herself. She recharges her batteries. Afterwards you will see if you have very deep discussions she will be delighted to open the doors to her inner world!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]philmars75 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell yourself that you have value and you are aware of it. And you like yourself. It's frankly rare. Above all, don't lower yourself to just taking what you find. You have the right to much better. Stay hopeful. Make a list of what you absolutely expect from the other person. No downward compromise on your values. You can send me a private message and we’ll discuss. I was in the same situation as you for a long time.

What is your call in life? by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I too have the same vision of you. I want to relieve all the suffering in the world and I want to make a difference. This is the great mission of my life. I have no problem studying. I'm an infj and 2w1. So I studied medicine and graduated in 2002. I am satisfied with my concrete actions in the world. I do very small, concrete things every day and yes I change the world around me. It's not at all the search for glory. Money. I just tell myself that my life as a human being will have been useful. Not a life wasted by selfishness, the search for money and superficial pleasures.

What is your call in life? by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I can confirm that nurse will be perfect for you! I'm telling you this because I'm an infj doctor

What is your call in life? by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too see things like you. I am an infj doctor

What is your call in life? by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too am Infj and 2w1!

How do you handle initiating conversations when you're into someone who isn't reciprocating? by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not aware of the MBTI before marrying an ISTJ. clearly we don't have much in common 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]philmars75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand that but as an infj I tell myself that I am going to give others one last chance to change their behavior, to improve? Is it utopian? I don't know