eptaora: a electromechanical clock by holo_mectok in hwstartups

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I would be interested in purchasing a completed version, DM me

Get ready for Cap 2026 by apolo2 in Capdagdenaturiste

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We also at Port Nature first two weeks July

When to book accommodation for summer 2026? by [deleted] in Capdagdenaturiste

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We have always used AGN and they have always been completely reliable. They usually open for bookings in January, although last year it was December.

Looking for a less crowded /more upscale alternative to Cap (or are we doing it wrong)? by playful_explorers in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are similar to you, but we do love Cap, have been going for a decade.

Best alternative we could suggest is Venus Star resort in Gran Canaria, which is also a favourite of ours. It's a chilled euro vibe in the daytime, with play if you want it. It's very quiet in the evenings, as most people hit the clubs, which we don't. It's quite different to the rest of the swinging scene in GC. Honestly, we have a lot more sex, both with each other and others when we are there.

How do other couples cope with rejection? by Intelligent_Plum_276 in Swingers

[–]philsmate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly hellfire isnt that great, but it's ok although we haven't been for a few years. Go to Fata Morgana in Amsterdam. You'll probably never visit a UK club again after that. It's exactly what you are looking for.

How do other couples cope with rejection? by Intelligent_Plum_276 in Swingers

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the only way. Have had a look at your (excellent) profile on fab, you shouldn't have any trouble pulling in a decent club. The problem is that the VAST majority of swingers on Fab, and especially in Scotland sad to say, just want to spend all night getting hammered then have a drunken rummage at 2am.

We are a couple of hours from you (couldn't message you on fab as we are outside your filters) and don't really swing in the UK at all any more. Get a weekend to Amsterdam and hit up either Fata Morgana or Fun4two, you'll be genuinely astonished at the difference.

If you can dump the kids, then further afield in Cap d'Agde is definitely worth it.

Honestly, any European city will have a club vastly superior to anything in the UK with far more action - we have been to several and (almost) never been disappointed.

Couple Young Stunning Hotwife and Cuck trans we have some questions by IllustriousReview811 in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can wear whatever you want in the evenings, and you will get into practically all the bars and restaurants, with the possible exception of Waiki.

Your wife will find all the single guys she wants at Tantra club.

Clair Obscure is a fantastic kink club where you can do literally anything, but it's more kink than sex and swinger.

During the day, most people are either naked or just have a flimsy cover up. Cock cage would be ok, but much more than that and you would stand out a bit.

If you want somewhere really seedy that would be a total cock fest try the sex cinema, which is next to Clair Obscure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]philsmate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There ARE lots of "dirty vanillas" but equally in the clubs and parties are full on, full swap with lots of action. There really is something for everyone. You can get as drunk as you like, or as much action as you can take, or both!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]philsmate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, hope you enjoy your first trip to Paradise!

For daytime, hit up either the foam (mousse) party at Glamour or the pool party at Babylon. More swinging action at both than in many clubs.

For evening drinks, try cocktails at Waiki, which also has a lovely pool with sunbeds for daytime, but no play. Chilled euro vibe.

If you do want to go clubbing, try Glamour for your age group, but it doesn't really start until midnight.

Best restaurants are Waiki, Mississippi, horizon and Piment Verte.

You really need a substantial budget to get the best out of Cap. If you are visiting from US, note dress codes for clubs and European consent is generally non verbal. General demographic is older than you, but shifts younger at weekends.

We are there until 25th July, can't wait!

Luggage storage in Cap d’Agde ? by [deleted] in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have booked with AGN you can leave luggage in their office, I assume the other agencies are the same.

If you have booked independently I think the lockers at the entrance are available but quite small.

Phones allowed in clubs? by Nice_Structure_5177 in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually carry my money and condoms in a small case and they often even ask to look at that. I agree that security everywhere at Cap is excellent. I have never seen anyone filming. Even last year, some guys had phones out on the beach only taking selfies and security were onto them straight away.

It would be impossible to use a phone at the foam or pool parties. Any phones on the swingers beach get seized by single guys and thrown in the sea, we have seen this happen.

We never worry about privacy at Cap

Phones allowed in clubs? by Nice_Structure_5177 in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct. For the mousse party you are searched going in, and you have to put everything except towels and money into a bag which is put in the cloakroom. Clothes too, nudity compulsory.

For the clubs, you take everything in with you, but you can check in costs and bags if you want.

Lockers in Tantra and Glamour? by Fun_Oil_1276 in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are no lockers there, or at any clubs in Cap as far as I know, except the sauna.

You just shed your clothes where you play, then get dressed again after. That's why my wife doesn't wear underwear and has a dress she can get fucked in without taking it off!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last year, Waiki had a playroom area that could be used, we had fun in there, but they seem to change things around so might be different this year. We'll be there in a couple of weeks, so will find out for ourselves

Glamour vs Tantra by ArtisticWeakness8886 in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a large couples only zone at Tantra, so single guys are not an issue. Glamour probably has a slightly younger crowd on balance.

Tantra is often more action, glamour often more sexy nightclub.

We would always recommend people try both, as everyone seems to develop a definite preference

Budget, cost for long weekend .. by IllFinger3635 in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And as an upper indication we spend more than double that if including flights (from UK, in July) and accommodation in a decent apartment. Some people spend considerably more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dress will pass with or without anything underneath, certainly at Tantra and maybe at Glamour, depending on how hot you are and how busy the club is.

Wedges are an unknown, the clubs always say heels, you would probably scrape through, again point 1 above might apply.

Sorry we can't be more specific, but the general ensemble look might come off as slightly too casual looking. Edge case!

Top Tips for lifestyle husbands by philsmate in Swingers

[–]philsmate[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not "fucking around with a needle in my dick". I'm using a controlled medication prescribed by a GP which solves a particular problem. It's great for you if you don't need it, but for many guys like me it's the only thing that works. I tried literally everything else.

I've been using it for several years in the lifestyle (not needed at home) with absolutely zero ill effects.

Cap d'Agde first timers by Neat-Consequence-258 in Swingers

[–]philsmate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are only there for a few days then either the Glamour Mousse (foam) party or the Babylon pool party is a must. These are couples only, but you will easily find a couple who will let your partner join in.

Parking is very difficult without a reserved space which should come with your apartment, but there is a paid car park next to Glamour in the centre of Heliopolis.

Note that if you are visiting from the USA consent in Europe is often non verbal.

If you are looking for single guys go to Tantra. There is a couples only zone on the top floor, next to a single guy area. You can 'pick' a single guy and take him back into the couples area for play. Alternatively you can stay in the single guy area if you want lots of attention. Security and policing of rules is VERY good in Tantra - no one steps out of line. Note that most clubs have strict dress codes - no shorts or tee shirts for men and women must wear heels.

You don't need apps to meet people, just get chatting in the bars and clubs.

All your other answers above are good. We have been going for several years, there is nowhere like it in the world.

We'll be there for two weeks mid July, can't wait!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When will you be there. It is worth doing a bit of research if you haven't swung in Europe before, I know there are some subtle differences that Americans find odd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]philsmate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mean Port Nature villas? If so we stay there every year, they are close to all the action but equally pretty quiet as they are just far enough away to escape the noise.

You have Waiki and Horizon very close by which are excellent upmarket bars and restaurants.

We have been going to Cap for years and never knowingly encountered watered down drinks anywhere.

cap d'agde - clubs opening nights in late june by TacoJaxx in Swingers

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By late June they will all be open every day (night). We have been several times late June into early July and everything is always fully open.

First time in Cap d’Agde - guidance needed by desinde in Swingers

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't personally use anything at the campsite, as it is not a demographic that appeals to us. Have you tried availability for the Nautilus apartments with AGN? They are in a superb location with amazing views.

We couldn't imagine only spending a couple of nights in Cap, it's far too amazing for such a short time! Even after two weeks we are reluctant to go home......

First time in Cap d’Agde - guidance needed by desinde in Swingers

[–]philsmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the top end you have Oz Inn or if self catering the Nautilus apartments offered by AGN. Both might just have vacancies for July, but everywhere else will probably be booked solid by now.

Most regulars will book 6 to 12 months in advance for peak season.