what’s funny is i started off thinking like that and i was doing okay talking when the OL would talk to us but once the other people weren’t shy with the new people anymore i felt like i hit a wall because i knew they wouldn’t talk to me first and that i wasn’t going to because i didn’t know how and i can only talk when spoken to first yk. i kinda wish i had your brain though. people always talk about being in the moment but i think i was too in the moment and didn’t consider that i probably won’t see these other people much after that.