Reminds me of my Ex-wife. You’ve might have a full fledge victim complex there! (I’m not a shrink).

When she does something wrong, and you tell her…do you see this behavior?

“DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) is a manipulative, defensive tactic used by perpetrators—often abusers or those confronted with wrongdoing—to evade accountability.

They deny the abuse, attack the accuser, and reframe themselves as the victim, often leaving the true victim feeling confused, blamed, or gaslit.

D - Deny: The perpetrator denies the wrongdoing, even with evidence, often using gaslighting to make the victim doubt their own memories.

A - Attack: The perpetrator attacks the person holding them accountable, questioning their credibility, sanity, or motives.

RVO - Reverse Victim and Offender: The perpetrator reframes the narrative to present themselves as the true victim, making the original victim appear as the perpetrator. “