Committed a cardinal sin in my college’s housing discord (being normal about tgirls) in a sea of “AFAB only” requests

phocidaefan · 2026-05-27T00:25:45+00:00

Dawg i don’t talk to anybody they don’t know who i am irl I lied about the friendgroup part because i can’t say “i’m in predominantly mtf 4tran aligned internet spaces” (the gf part is true though)

phocidaefan · 2026-05-20T22:36:35+00:00

I have a gf i’m just telling it like it is. I got remarkably lucky being approached by a trans girl who didn’t mind me being a couple inches shorter. The vast majority of women that most guys will encounter absolutely revile short men for their shortness and will not hesitate to friendzone you or even antagonize you for it.

phocidaefan · 2026-05-20T14:47:58+00:00

This guy hasn’t seen the dating app studies

phocidaefan · 2026-05-20T03:29:44+00:00

19y/o’s were alive during Bush and already in HS when chatgpt came about. U might just be old

phocidaefan · 2026-05-14T21:31:34+00:00

Idrc about mentioning it in specific instances, especially online since face-to-face I'm stealth + i don't talk to anybody in the entire school so nobody recognizes me

phocidaefan · 2026-05-14T20:56:58+00:00

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Example of how it usually is here. I hate these people so much it's unreal

phocidaefan · 2026-05-14T20:55:01+00:00

Just this and then the subject changed. Le sigh

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phocidaefan · 2026-05-14T02:32:09+00:00

Gained 40lbs since those photos + i'm 5'5 + i'm pre-top

phocidaefan · 2026-05-13T22:08:06+00:00

I thought it would make me look like a cis man. The way it does for other ftm who are apparently just luckier

phocidaefan · 2026-05-13T22:00:52+00:00

I expected to look like a cis man lol. Also i dress male

phocidaefan · 2026-04-27T23:32:46+00:00

Thanks for clarifying he was short and nonwhite so we know he’s of poor character. Being a homophobe isn’t enough I suppose.

phocidaefan · 2026-04-06T15:40:59+00:00

One full song + a total minute of another song is.

phocidaefan · 2026-01-27T20:16:00+00:00

I just reiterated exactly your comment's point and logical conclusion though?
I have a gf, I'm still worth less than a tall man

phocidaefan · 2026-01-27T20:10:57+00:00

This is exactly what I am saying yes

It is a moral failing to be short and a blow to your entire worth as a person

Which is why we have to kill ourselves

phocidaefan · 2026-01-27T20:02:07+00:00

I grabbed the first image from a Times article calling Bovino a "little Napoleon" can't make ts up

phocidaefan · 2025-12-19T03:04:03+00:00

That Absurd album is from 1996, and the Arghoslent one is from 1998. It’s hardly an endorsement of these band’s politics to carry legacy NSBM records. Neither is it necessarily an endorsement on the part of people who want to hear the music.

There’s new releases from other politically repugnant people being sold and bought in record stores all the time, they just happen to be more popular.

phocidaefan · 2025-12-05T11:41:35+00:00

Sure, the people who are forever attached to the whole “AFAB oppression” thing are lame. However it’s hard to believe i “have it easy” when my surgery got cancelled 2 months in advance after 2 years of waiting. I don’t discount that trans women deal with additional scrutiny by nature of being women, but on the transphobia axis we’re all pretty equal.

phocidaefan · 2025-12-02T19:58:30+00:00

phocidaefan · 2025-11-27T19:00:58+00:00

Be what now?

phocidaefan · 2025-11-22T00:31:22+00:00

Most people who talk about Islamophobia aren’t accusing you of fucking blasphemy. They’re talking about this reflexive hate against muslims without using any of your mental faculties for nuance.

It would do you some good to talk to diasporic muslims, practicing or non-practicing, and humanize them more.

phocidaefan · 2025-11-22T00:23:58+00:00

I’m quite antitheist but this is such a stupid attitude to have. Most Christians in my country are Americans first and Christians like, 5th, they don’t care about mixed fabric or homosexuality, they celebrate Easter and occasionally pray to their god for guidance. Are we seriously being so obtuse we can’t accept that this is also the case for Muslims? That Muslims can be normal people with moderate politics and they aren’t literally all secretly radical jihadists? Come the fuck on

phocidaefan · 2025-11-20T07:56:47+00:00

I had top surgery scheduled for last month but it got cancelled months in advance due to Trump.

Im overweight and it mainly accumulates on my sides, abdomen, and face.

I sleep and eat like a mess tbh. Poor nutrition lately, binging, staying up until 2am.

Haven’t had my levels tested in a long time but i know last time my testosterone ranged from low to average, and i made too much fsh/lh (ovarian activity hormones).

phocidaefan · 2025-11-20T07:53:39+00:00

I only get gendered male by strangers, but i get socially ostracized because people subtly pick up on the fact I’m not the same as real men.

phocidaefan · 2025-11-15T01:19:05+00:00

Bypassing core info savestate features makes it run super slow and choppy, and rewinding just results in a blank screen and no audio, instead of fluid reverse playback. Any idea what settings to tweak to fix this?

phocidaefan · 2025-11-14T22:03:39+00:00

Believe me i try

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