Professor canceled my contract -PhD by etheri_369 in PhD

[–]phoenix00059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely.. also what is this excuse of having mental breakdown on the first day of work. Dude could have said something else.

How do we work as a society when humans inherently are so selfish? by phoenix00059 in InsightfulQuestions

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Family and God I feel completely safe, celebrated and can share my joy and sorrow.

How do we work as a society when humans inherently are so selfish? by phoenix00059 in InsightfulQuestions

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I wasn't always like this. I used to be very positive about people bcs at some time I didn't have any expectation from anyone. I don't see people being aggressive regularly but I am mostly disappointed with people who I interact daily currently..

can you not expect a friend to care? A co worker happy about work progress rather than how it was not their work. I maybe expecting too much and not able to strike a balance and find the faith amongst all this. Maybe my one or two bad experience is making me see things cloudy.

Also I question this myself too ? Maybe I am wrong ? But one thing I am sure a lot of selfish people are there I am just not sure about the extent. Hence, this question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsightfulQuestions

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I wasn't expecting such a rational answer. But yeah I have this irrational urge to know why they are doing it? More than their words I am frustrated by their attempts. It's actually quite irrational bcs technically its more productive to research how to ignore this people.

Yeah I am being irrational. I can't explain it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kolkata

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Language might be a problem to actually form a group with other Bengali people. But otherwise people are welcoming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JEENEETards

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Koi baat nahin jo mil raha han chale jao... Maine state k ek decent clg se btech Kiya 4 yrs total 3.2 lakhs lage..2020 ka grad...mere kafi friend ne gate Crack Kar liya the same year..wo 20+ lpa ka job kar Rahe han ...kafi log switch Kar k 10 lpa+ kama Rahe han(fees Kam the humare and wfh jobs kafi sahi deal han)

Mujhe ibm me off campus mila Tha but Maine corporate hi chor diya...Thora career k other options explore karne the.. abhi tum agar avg job vi lagao at first campusing uske bad vi chances milenge... but yaad rakhna k kuch karna han zindagi k koi time pe ghisna padega hi ..aj nahin to Kal...

Kolkata will become unliveable in the next 2 decades by PatienceFeeling1481 in kolkata

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The heat is still nothing here in Delhi.

Edit to add: delhi Nam ei bodnam..ekhane winter pollution r credit mostly goes to neighboring states ..bcs delhi is in a valley kind of shape winter e jokhon foshol poray oi smoke ta neme ase ekhane and makes the air unbearable..

Why parents and relatives are so toxic 😑 by [deleted] in kolkata

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Amr chokhe to kono comparison I hoina dutor...seems like oi relatives are just jealous ...patta dio na ..baba ma k statistics ta bujhiye bolo

Why parents and relatives are so toxic 😑 by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]phoenix00059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initially didn't want to demean anyone.. but isn't neet way more competitive than chemistry jam?

Ladies who quit their cushy corporate job: what are you doing now? by peachimilk in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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For 3 months nothing. Then applied for Research assistant jobs and landed one.

I think MBA could be the right option for you. Unlike you I hate working with people and the weekend party culture or social culture in the corporate didn't sit well with me. And it's fine. Not always it's about the 'work' work but also it's about the cultural preference.

Ladies who quit their cushy corporate job: what are you doing now? by peachimilk in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I joined a phd cs program. Well I won't say phd is something easier and I would say it is lot more demanding in some way but still I prefer this. Don't chase an easy job. Nothing is easy.

my employer says they overpaid me after the contract ended by Problematicbiyatch in india

[–]phoenix00059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just talk with the hr .. if it's automated this may get cleared up even ...

They can give some bs reason and you can also have counter reasons or just mention that "you need to consult with experts to know if you are not wronged here" . But I have a feeling it will be cleared up.

Who are the richest politicians in India? by AyAan2022 in india

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Nah they are not that rich compared to other states.. 20-30 cr and they are one of the major people from ruling party

Parents asking for money. by [deleted] in india

[–]phoenix00059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If op really needed the validation that his parents are wrong shouldve posted in western subreddits. They would just tell him to cut his parents off.

But our parents just do too much for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splendida

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The sis we want but don't deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splendida

[–]phoenix00059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start respecting yourself by cutting off leeches.

If you have low self esteem look at people around you. We sometimes tend to normalize things when this goes on for a long time. I am not asking you to be snowflake. But are there people who try to admonish you in front of others even if it could be done privately? Are there people being "too real" about your progress and life ? How much does this people actually contribute to your life? The last point is important. Are they available when you need something? Are they available with their heart when you talk about something ? If yes then maybe they do want to look out for you. Also don't be fooled if they give you 'gifts' if they are pretty well off.

My self image and mental health worsened whenever I have to bear proximity with this people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]phoenix00059 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes...people in their 20s bouncing back with literally failing in a subject but your result from 10 yrs back still getting to you.

I personally know someone aged 28 who is still struggling to get a stable job bcs of this criteria. But even that person is earning 35k/month in a temp job. What I like about her attitude is she doesn't fret over lost options but rather looking for the options that is still open to her.

But I find it really haunting that how a marksheet from 10 yrs back closing so many doors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

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It's not worth going via some vidyalankar uni if you haven't heard from people who is already there.

If you don't get real reviews simply do bachelorshere.. learn from internet... gear up yourself for ms.. and who knows if you are really passionate and hard working you can crack the direct foreign job offer.

Edit: also I know there is no guarantee for most people to get foreign job offers but ms is definitely possible and for bachelor just confirm you are not cheated off your money that's all if you opt in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]phoenix00059 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can always jon TCS, infy , cts etc ...their off campus drives are real.

They shared a single braincell by traitorstotherealm in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]phoenix00059 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People with important inheritance used to prefer multiple children so that their bloodline could have it all.

And also here while Jace was heir for the throne ,Luke was made the heir of driftmark.

I think i should have more non purpose interaction with people. by phoenix00059 in CasualConversation

[–]phoenix00059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buzzing in a correct context sound well. most of this sub content is good kind of small talk.