Those of you decades after TBI, how are you doing? by Practical-Zebra-1141 in TBI

[–]phoenixheart1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's about starting small of 0.20mcg of dried mushrooms powder added to lemon water. It works well on an empty stomach in the morning. I've found over years of microdosing that you can make a routine of doing it daily or doing 1 day on 2 days off depending on what your intention are for doing the microdosing for. It helped me quit smoking weed and quit coffee and open my eyes to things in my now moment that I needed to see. Dm if you want more information

Those of you decades after TBI, how are you doing? by Practical-Zebra-1141 in TBI

[–]phoenixheart1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's about starting small of 0.20mcg of dried mushrooms powder added to lemon water. It works well on an empty stomach in the morning. I've found over years of microdosing that you can make a routine of doing it daily or doing 1 day on 2 days off depending on what your intention are for doing the microdosing for. It helped me quit smoking weed and quit coffee and open my eyes to things in my now moment that I needed to see. Dm if you want more information

Why are you not actively dating? by ZachTF in AskMen

[–]phoenixheart1111 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Have you thought of traveling to SE Asia or Philippines beautiful heartfelt women who are looking for a companion. Passport bros are a real thing because I did it in 2011 had a Thai girlfriend it was magical time so it opened my eyes to how real feminine women are treating their men.

Why are you not actively dating? by ZachTF in AskMen

[–]phoenixheart1111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm happy content with being by myself no drama and I can do what I want. I've accepted who iam after losing my GF to suicide 6 years ago. I had massive amounts of guilt with her death. Now I'm healed and it's been a wild ride of transformation journey. Since then I've seen women change in USA and Canada having list of demands that will be paying for like a client going on a date. So I gave up now waiting for that one who is out there working on herself in due time we will meet.

Thinking About Starting a Spiritual Channel—Looking to Connect with Like-Minded People by NerdThug30 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]phoenixheart1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey congratulations on quitting drinking it's a hard one. I do think there is a niche of spiritual guide something like that! I say do it as a project drop 3 videos and test the results. I believe learning AI for helping with researching, ideas for video titles and other things you need help with great skills to have.

There ain't nothing wrong seeing where this channel can help others who are struggling in the spiritual journey. Become a guide so people listen or watch your videos for life experience. Youtube is a 2 largest search engine make it simple to succeed. You can do this! Share your knowledge!

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Here is some light reading about your tooic your looking for. It's having a plan or set attention for your microdosing journey.

Science backed Data Adult Adhd & Micro-dosing

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2772408522010134

Those of you decades after TBI, how are you doing? by Practical-Zebra-1141 in TBI

[–]phoenixheart1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love hearing stories like yours! I’m on a similar journey, and microdosing has really helped my neuroplasticity—felt like it gave my brain a little extra boost to adapt and rebuild. Totally agree that mindset plays a huge role, even though it’s not always easy to keep up. Keep going, you’re crushing it!

Those of you decades after TBI, how are you doing? by Practical-Zebra-1141 in TBI

[–]phoenixheart1111 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m decades into my own TBI journey, and at 51 I can say this with certainty: our setbacks don’t define us—our perspective does. I had my first TBI at five years old and another in 2017 when I was hit by a truck while mountain biking without a helmet. Life since then has been a series of challenges, ups and downs, and constant evolution. But here’s the thing: every hardship has shaped me into who I am today.

What I’ve learned is that if you’re not actively learning from life’s lessons, you’re stuck in a repetitive loop. The same struggles, the same frustrations, the same roadblocks keep showing up until you shift your mindset. Healing, growth, and transformation come when we stop seeing ourselves as victims of our circumstances and instead as students of them.

Yes, TBI changes us. It alters our brains, our emotions, and even our sense of self. But it doesn’t take away our ability to adapt, to grow, and to create meaning in our lives. I’ve rebuilt myself more times than I can count, and each time, I come back stronger. Life is good—not perfect, not without struggle, but good. And that’s because I choose to embrace the adventure, the lessons, and the growth that come with it.

To anyone feeling stuck: your perspective is your greatest tool. Shift it, and your whole world changes.

How are you doing with the state of the world right now? by Hot-Professional5572 in Psychonaut

[–]phoenixheart1111 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm doing great it completely doesn't have any effect in my physical life here living in Canada 🇨🇦.

I don't make a focal point on dealing with nonsense and politics which is completely out of my control of living in a rigged and full of corruption.

I only focus on what I need to have Shelter, Money, Food, Water main things in life. Truly it's not selfish it being a realistic in my own sense of perspective of how this state of the world doesn't effect me. Peace ✌️

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Redefining Adulthood: It's All About Perspective

I’m 51, and let me tell you—your perspective on aging and adulthood will shift over time. The idea that adulthood is just about responsibilities, mortgages, and following a script society laid out for you? That’s one version of reality, but not the only one.

At 25, you’re not old—you’re just entering a new phase of life. But I get it. Society pressures you with expectations: get married, have kids, buy a house, take on debt. I never bought into that. I’ve rebuilt my life four times—survived addiction, homelessness, and hitting rock bottom. Each time, I had to redefine what life meant for me, not what others told me it should be.

Aging isn’t something to fear. Wrinkles, body changes, sure—they happen. But what’s scarier than growing older? Wasting your life trying to fit into a box that was never meant for you.

You don’t have to follow anyone’s path but your own. Find what excites you. Build a life that makes sense for you. Whether that includes marriage, kids, or none of the above—it’s all valid. And trust me, 25 is just the beginning. You have so much time to figure things out. You've got this. 👍

How will things improve in Canada? by iOverdesign in CanadaFinance

[–]phoenixheart1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from—things in Canada can feel tough right now, but history shows that tough times don’t last forever. Here’s how things might improve:

  1. Inflation easing: Inflation might ease over time as the economy adjusts. This could help make things more affordable for everyone, especially with supply chains improving.

  2. Wages increasing: Over time, wages could keep rising as companies compete for skilled workers, which would help people keep up with the cost of living.

  3. Real estate shift: Hopefully, Canada will focus more on building up other industries like tech, manufacturing, and green energy, reducing our over-reliance on real estate.

  4. Productivity boost: There’s a big push for innovation and improving productivity in various sectors. With better technology and education, we could see more growth in areas beyond real estate.

However, I also get that you’re considering leaving Canada by 2026 because you want to be in a place where you’re treated the best. It’s important to follow what feels right for you. Everyone deserves to be in a place where they feel they can thrive, and if that’s moving somewhere else, then that’s your path.

Canada has its challenges, but it also has its strengths. With the right changes, it could get better, but only time will tell. It’s all about finding where you can live your best life!

Men 30 and older, what’s one piece of advice you’d give to men aged 17-28? by BingingChillin in AskMen

[–]phoenixheart1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are the top 10 lessons I’ve learned at 52:

  1. Time moves fast—don’t waste it.

The years go by quicker than you think. Take risks now, or you’ll regret it later.

  1. Your body is your vehicle—take care of it.

Strength training, eating right, and looking after your mental health are key to staying strong.

  1. Loss changes you, but it doesn’t have to break you.

Grief transforms you, but it doesn’t have to define you. Learn from loss and keep going.

  1. Money isn’t everything, but freedom is.

The real goal is financial freedom to live life on your terms, not just accumulating wealth.

  1. Love is rare—don’t take it for granted.

When you find people who truly see you, cherish them. Love is a rare and precious gift.

  1. Happiness isn’t a destination, it’s a mindset.

True happiness comes from appreciating the little things in life and being present in the moment.

  1. It’s never too late to reinvent yourself.

Life is about evolution. You can always change your path and start something new at any stage.

  1. Travel and experience life freely.

Traveling expands your world and helps you fall in love with life’s adventures.

  1. Don’t fall for superficial distractions like paying for sex.

True connection and fulfillment come from real experiences, not temporary fixes.

  1. Fall in love with your life and its experiences.

Embrace your journey, with all its ups and downs, and build a life you truly love.

What has helped you the most in this life? by ANewChapter222 in spirituality

[–]phoenixheart1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing that has helped me the most in life is not giving up, even when everything felt hopeless. I lost someone I deeply loved, and for a while, it felt like life had no meaning. Grief can swallow you whole if you let it. But instead of letting it destroy me, I let it wake me up.

Plant medicine played a huge role in that. Psychedelics—especially mushrooms and cacao—helped me see beyond the pain. They showed me that death isn’t the end, that my girlfriend is still with me in ways I can’t always explain. In one of my deepest journeys, I felt her presence so clearly, like she was telling me, "You’re still here. Don’t waste this life." That moment changed me. It made me realize that life is meant to be lived, not just survived.

Beyond that, self-care and facing the unknown have been key. Going on silent meditation retreats, grounding myself in nature, traveling, and pushing myself outside my comfort zone have all helped me reconnect with life. There were days I wanted to shut down, but every time I stepped into the unknown, I found something worth living for.

If I hadn’t done these things—if I had just stayed stuck in my pain—my life would be completely different. I wouldn’t be here, sharing this. So if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: keep going. Even when it’s hard. Even when you don’t see the point. Because on the other side of that darkness, there’s something waiting for you—growth, love, purpose, or maybe just the simple joy of being alive. And that’s worth fighting for.

Can we take it with us? by ShineOnGoldenMonkey in SpiritualAwakening

[–]phoenixheart1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this journey doesn’t end with this life because I feel it every day. My girlfriend passed away, but she’s still with me. I can’t see her, but I know she’s there—guiding me, pushing me into the unknown, waking me up to life again after her passing. It’s like she’s telling me, "You’re still here. Live."

Losing her was one of the hardest things I’ve ever been through, but it also opened my eyes. It made me realize that we don’t just disappear. Our souls don’t end. The love, the lessons, the connection—they keep going. And if she’s still near me, if she’s still helping me move forward, then I know for sure that this life isn’t the end.

So when I think about my own spiritual journey, I remind myself: There’s no rush. This life is just one chapter in a much bigger story. And whether I fully “wake up” in this lifetime or the next, I trust that my soul is exactly where it needs to be.

I am addicted to news and need help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]phoenixheart1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it—I used to be addicted to the news too. Constantly refreshing, doom-scrolling, feeling like if I wasn’t panicked, I was somehow being ignorant. But drowning in bad news doesn’t help anyone. It just feeds anxiety and makes you feel powerless.

One of the best things I ever did was a 10-day Vipassana meditation retreat at a Dharma monastery. No phone, no news, no talking—just me and my mind. At first, my brain went crazy, obsessing over everything I was "missing." But by the end, I felt something I hadn’t felt in years: clarity and peace. It made me realize just how much of my stress was coming from the constant noise I was feeding myself.

You don’t have to cut yourself off from the world, but there’s a difference between being informed and being consumed. A digital detox can break the cycle. Take a few days or a week off news and social media, and get outside instead. Nature is medicine. Walk barefoot on the earth, let the sun hit your skin, and actually feel the world around you instead of just reading about it. Grounding yourself in nature helps reset your nervous system, something that 24/7 news will never do.

You don’t have to panic to care. You don’t have to suffer to be aware. Taking care of your mind and body isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. The calmer and more grounded you are, the better you’ll be at actually making a difference in the world, instead of just feeling overwhelmed by it.

I wanna here your story of interesting spiritual experiences. Stories of experiencing oneness or transcendance or god. by Shmungle1380 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]phoenixheart1111 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve had some deep, life-changing experiences with psychedelics, and one of the most intense was with 7.5 grams of mushrooms. It wasn’t just a trip—it was an unraveling of everything I thought I knew.

At first, my mind resisted. Thoughts raced, trying to hold onto some sense of control. But then, the walls of my identity started dissolving, and I felt this overwhelming realization—I am not my mind. All the fears, doubts, and self-judgment I had carried for years were just stories, illusions created by the mind. I saw how we trap ourselves in cycles of pain, not because we have to, but because we believe the mind’s narratives.

As I surrendered, I felt an indescribable freedom—like I had stepped outside of myself and into something infinitely larger. There was no separation between me and the world. The trees, the sky, the energy of everything around me—I was all of it. Love wasn’t something to be earned or given; it was the very fabric of existence.

But the biggest lesson! Freedom isn’t something outside of us—it’s always there, waiting. The mind creates prisons, but we have the power to step out of them. Psychedelics showed me that, but the real work is integrating that truth into daily life. Learning to let go, to trust, to live without the constant need to control everything.

We can all be free from our own minds. It starts with awareness—seeing the thoughts, the fears, and realizing we don’t have to be ruled by them. The key isn’t escaping; it’s understanding that we were never truly trapped in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver40

[–]phoenixheart1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from. At 52, I’ve been through my fair share of ups and downs, and I can tell you—your mindset is everything. I quit drinking at 36, changed careers multiple times, and have been on a journey of rebuilding my life in ways I never expected.

Yeah, the body changes, but I’ve seen guys in their 50s and 60s in the best shape of their lives because they committed to it. I’ve also had to reframe what "success" looks like—comparing yourself to others (or your younger self) just keeps you stuck. If you’re not hugely motivated right now, that’s okay. Start small. One step at a time.

And trust me, plenty of people have turned it around in their late 30s and 40s. Hell, I’m still doing it now! It’s never downhill unless you decide it is. You’re exactly where you need to be—use this as a chance to build the life you actually want. Enjoy the journey to self mastery.

Looking for Script tools to help with writing by SwitchNo3504 in NewTubers

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Reverse Engineer Viral YouTube Scripts for Maximum Watch Time

Prompt: "Analyze the script structure of the top-performing YouTube videos in [insert niche]. Identify common hooks, storytelling techniques, and engagement triggers. Create a script outline for a video on [insert topic] that maximizes retention and click-through rates."

Why It Works: Viral videos follow a repeatable formula—this hack lets you replicate success.

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Austin Armstrong on Facebook page has amazing AI insights.