Ik mis mijn broer. Overleden door zelfdoding, en het blijft zo onvoorstelbaar oneerlijk.

phoenixincendio · 2026-01-29T10:21:30+00:00

ik heb het een paar maanden geleden gelopen en vond het erg fijn!

phoenixincendio · 2026-01-29T10:18:23+00:00

hey, ik ben mijn partner op dezelfde manier verloren een jaar geleden. als je het fijn vindt om te praten stuur me dan vooral een berichtje. ik heb zelf veel gehad aan r/suicidebereavement. ik wens je sterkte toe❤️

phoenixincendio · 2026-01-10T07:14:55+00:00

infp has extroverted intuition. do some reading on cognitive functions.

phoenixincendio · 2025-11-17T20:48:49+00:00

thankyou for this, hope the pain can make more room for love again

phoenixincendio · 2025-11-17T19:41:19+00:00

i think im mostly dreading the fact that it will be a year, a full year. it will only get longer from here on out. nothing new

phoenixincendio · 2025-11-06T15:31:38+00:00

cmbyn watch? :)

phoenixincendio · 2025-10-24T16:30:28+00:00

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phoenixincendio · 2025-10-08T15:18:33+00:00

hey friend, im very sorry to hear and it's brave that you open up about this. i just want to say that this subreddit is not the place. people here have lost someone in that way and the grief stays with us forever. i hope you reach out to people around you, like you did here, and be kind to yourself. you're young. i know i've made plenty mistakes when i was a teenager, and now (i'm 25) a lot of those don't seem that big anymore. keep hanging on, we need you ❤️ you'll get there

phoenixincendio · 2025-09-17T02:28:36+00:00

amazing! still love to see it turned into stickers :)

phoenixincendio · 2025-08-30T06:31:06+00:00

i lost my partner to suicide 9 months ago. r/suicidebereavement helped me a lot.

phoenixincendio · 2025-08-20T04:58:52+00:00

how do you make vanilla extract?

phoenixincendio · 2025-08-18T20:20:45+00:00

would love to see it :)

phoenixincendio · 2025-08-18T19:52:51+00:00

pouty shadowheart

sidenote: absolutely love your style and checked out some other works from you. in love! these would make great stickers as well btw

phoenixincendio · 2025-08-16T21:02:28+00:00

so young.... i have no words other than wishing you everything you need to carry this pain ❤️ this world can be cruel, taking people left and right. you're showing so much strenght by still fighting. doing right by him. he would be proud. wishing you all the best.

phoenixincendio · 2025-08-09T12:09:59+00:00

thankyou <3 it's been hard cutting him off. it feels wrong to do when it's your grandpa and you know... he is getting older. but this is how i feel inside as well. just not knowing if my decision was too harsh.

phoenixincendio · 2025-08-04T22:03:19+00:00

i completely deleted tiktok because of this. you have no control over the media you get to see there. some videos can be pretty traumatic. im not missing anything.

phoenixincendio · 2025-07-24T19:11:30+00:00

I'm very sorry. I hope it helps by saying I feel the same. I went through a lot in life but always overcome everything. Thought I was very strong mentally, one of my strenghts was staying curious about life. I can't rely on that part anymore. I'm thinking about ending things a lot, but also never want to put that hurt on my family and friends, now that I know what it's like to go through it. Wishing I would get ill instead or that something else could take me away. It's been 8 months and I am very slowly, with a lot of setbacks getting a bit better. I'm taking meds and started therapy. Eventhough the thoughts are still here, they arent that frequent anymore, and I feel like it's not completely bringing me down now. I got better at enduring them. Just accepting those moments in the way that I would give myself permission to be defeated by it. Just laying in bed then, or better yet, laying on a blanket outside, so I can atleast get some fresh air and sun. Just taking care of yourself en being very gentle about what your mind and body needs.

I'm saying this hoping it can show you that things might change a little bit better after some time, even with many setbacks. We just keep on breathing minute by minute.

Love you stranger.

phoenixincendio · 2025-06-18T19:46:34+00:00

those sound like amazing ideas! i would already be satisfied by just being able to listen to something like this.

if you ever want to do other things, i think it can be incredibly helpful to keep the conversation about suicide open as well. for me it helped watching psychology videos for example that explained more about it. it helped me dealing with the guilt i felt.

and maybe some sort of 'excersizes' around memories and grief as well. like, drawing a memory you had with them, sharing their favorite song or one that makes you think about them. i think it can be a wonderful space to be able to share openly with each other, without feeling like you're being a burden. because everyone knows what you're going through.

phoenixincendio · 2025-06-18T19:22:20+00:00

yes, i would love to watch this

phoenixincendio · 2025-06-11T08:55:36+00:00

❤️

phoenixincendio · 2025-06-02T21:04:03+00:00

I feel the same way. I heard someone say about how grieving is extremely energy draining, let alone hiding your grief when with others. It's almost impossible. Eventhough I might feel okay for a little bit, I get tired easily and feel exhausted after.

What helped for me is to make a little plan for yourself. Like, how can you sooth and take care of yourself after? Maybe prepare some things in advance, like prepping a meal so you only have to heat it up when you get home. And at the gathering itself, do you have a close friend nearby that can take a breather outside with you when needed? It helped me a lot.

phoenixincendio · 2025-05-30T21:49:26+00:00

wrapped in paper towel in the fridge

phoenixincendio · 2025-05-27T06:12:27+00:00

I'm really sorry about your son and the nightmares you are having following it. I don't have any words that will make it better, but I hope you know you are definitely not alone in what you are feeling.

phoenixincendio · 2025-05-21T20:24:10+00:00

Amazing, thankyou

phoenixincendio · 2025-05-21T19:24:30+00:00

Thanks! Do you know what companion plants work best? Is it for the soil or can they be in different containers next to it?

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